Seeking Swingers Socially

May 04 2021

We are relatively new to the lifestyle having attended a couple of nights at a swingers club in Melbourne which left me (the fem) largely underwhelmed. These experiences led us here and whilst we have found many likeminded couples here and it’s all great, I’d love to be in a situation with another couple or female where a connection happens organically.

Like there are gay and lesbian bars, are there any swingers bars in Melbourne? Not swingers clubs or private parties just a public place where likeminded people go to have a drink and maybe a bite to eat. Does this place exist in Melbourne?

Comments

  • 2EssesExploring

    2EssesExploring

    3 years ago

    It’s a lovely idea but alas I know of none anywhere

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    3 years ago

    We live in hope . As far as we know it does not exist. Fabulous business idea I would think . Ax

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    3 years ago

    Look up The Next Big Swing, they are a group on here that are working on opening a dedicated wine bar for social interactions, their web site (https://www.thenextbigswing.com.au/) does mention also having an onsite play spaces but I think (hope) that separated from the wine bar

  • funtimescouple1

    funtimescouple1

    3 years ago

    It would be nice if there was something like that here on the Goldy too. The art of flirting and seduction. Much more arousing than chatting and then eventually the 'shall we do it?'

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    Ive often thought the same.. A bar or club where you can meet up with other couples thinking likewise. Im sure there's plenty willing to turn up if such a venue becomes reality ? All we need is a enterprising person who knows how to get the wheels in motion...

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    3 years ago

    We too have registered our interest . It will be an exciting , long awaited addition to the Melbourne nightlife . We wish all those involved good luck in their new venture . Ax

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    3 years ago

    It’s a bloody awesome idea! Something small and cosy with a decent cocktail list! I wonder if you’d need to make it a members only type of thing? Once it got a reputation as a swingers bar it’d have the potential to attract a lot of undesirables trying their luck. You’d need the population of one of the east coast cities to make it work. So many cool speakeasy bars that have popped up in the last decade to get inspiration from. From my understanding there’s a few bars like this in the US in cities that have no sex on premises laws, usually next door to a motel 😂

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    3 years ago

    We are very lucky in Perth, we have a very good RHP social scene. There are a few bars where we have social meet nights, people have dinner and drinks and make new friends, then afterwards its up to them where they go and with whom. Why dont you arrange a social meet night, make it clear that its purely social, and if its a success make the nights a regular thing. Over the last few years we have had lunch meets, dinner and drinks meets. dress up theme nights and even a day at a sports club because a lot of people have their kids every weekend so it was a family day out. When there are no expectations you can relax and enjoy yourself with like minded people.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I’ve posted a recommendation twice thad seems to “disappear” (I suspect admin is deleting it as any other responses in other threads are there), so pm me if you want to know more

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    You can also check out the Curious Creatures events that are advertised on this site. They may work for you.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    We have a knack of running into people who are swinger or are interested in trying swinging at normal bars . The conversation often starts with what kinda clubs to you guys like . Maybe it’s because of our age gap that people assume we are into kink 🤷‍♀️

  • BellaVixenStag

    BellaVixenStag

    3 years ago

    look in the events here, june 18th Purr.

  • Keepitclassy6063

    Keepitclassy6063

    3 years ago

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  • Keepitclassy6063

    Keepitclassy6063

    3 years ago

    For anyone else interested, this just came up on my home page as an event suggestion. Looks and sounds perfect!