Profiles with not sure in sexual orientation
March 15 2020
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
4 years ago
Fair observation from you OP.
boobsandbusted
4 years ago
It would be annoying but not much different to ladies putting bi curious or bi and they are not , it’s the nature of the land don’t understand it but it’s just one of those things
Mr bRHP User
4 years ago
It's easy to think you've set your orientation then back out of that page without saving it. People rarely go back and look at their own profile. I think if someone has their orientation down as not sure it might be wise to ask them what they mean by not sure. If they know they're projecting that you'll get their answer if they've mistakenly checked that box you'll likely get a thankyou rather than someone be offended.
holdencouple1011
4 years ago
"Not sure" is the default setting when you create a profile it just means they're lazy and haven't changed it or filled out their profile properly
Mischeviouslad
4 years ago
As an aside...... who else cant stand the “what are you looking for” question?!
Im told every second guy asks that question.... and it must get tiresome, when what yiure liokibg for is (or should be!!) what the purpose of a profile is for
SpicyKale
4 years ago
Yep, our observation is that it's just the default and they haven't bothered to fill it in. We've had a number of couples fire back with the "we're not into bi guys" in response to very respectful inquiring messages. It's definitely a pet peeve here, just fill your profile out and everyone's life is easier!
On another note, we aren't only looking for bi guys in couples, but that question opens a whole other can of worms on here.
The other reasons for putting "not sure" down that I can think of... maybe they really aren't sure and are still testing the waters, or are afraid of a lack of interest if they put their hands up as bi. We were warned early on that we should put down straight on here, but have had bi down from day one. Yes, it may limit those interested, but at least we're finding the people we're after... whether they be bi or straight, but comfortable enough to know that we can all respect each other's limits.
By the way, we completely respect everyone's preferences, but some attitudes still baffle!RHP User
4 years ago
Hello spunkyboy (s) and girls 😍
I dont mind so much if they dont know or aren't sure, for real.
But I do mind if people snap at others for asking the question!
Its easier and more pleasant to just be polite, interested or not imho
having_fun
4 years ago
What if they like myself are unsure exactly I’ve always thought I was straight but I’m now curious and want to explore with the right person but don’t want it to be expected
bianca_dd
4 years ago
it must be very difficult for guys to fill in the profile when they are typing with only one hand
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