Many people think BDSM is all about painn...

April 19 2022

It doesn’t have to be. It’s all about giving over control and trust. There are differences between pain and pleasure. It doesn’t have to be all whips and chains as there’s plenty of room in a healthy D/s relationship for laughter, and in fact all emotions. Some days I gain extraordinary pleasure from your pain, discomfort and humiliation, whilst on others, as My loyal ones can testify, there will be times when we both smile at the enjoyment we share.

PS. This is a great place for people who wants to explore their secret fantasies but sad I can't afford subscriptions here so I can't even reply even to 1 message :(

Comments

  • Rising_Phoenix

    Rising_Phoenix

    2 years ago

    I’ll never be able to get my head around people deriving pleasure from humiliation, the pain thing I can’t sort of understand if it’s not severe pain but I don’t understand what’s pleasurable about degradation.
    Nonetheless, you can reply to messages if someone messages you first.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    2 years ago

    You can respond to any message sent to you🤷

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    2 years ago

    There are always fetish platforms and try the BDSM test if you google it will come up.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    This is also a great place where, dangerous "wanna-be" Dom's hang out too, who want to explore their secret F-ed up fantasies.
    Beware it's not always happy rainbows, pain and pleasure.
    Ms Foxy

  • Obi1kenietzsche

    Obi1kenietzsche

    2 years ago

    BDSM is not necessarily about about EITHER pain OR pleasure...

    It’s about TRUST.

  • DiscoLit

    DiscoLit

    2 years ago

    Exploring boundaries & secrete Desires. You learn new pleasures

  • makeitfun99

    makeitfun99

    2 years ago

    its about connection more than trust. I was with a real live librarian and can I say she was the best kind. An absolute lady in real life, and she loved getting tied up, teased, anal, oral, submission in bed was complete. I would take her shopping and tease her by feeling her up in her jeans in supermarkets. Was it trust at that point...no...she didnt trust me nor did she like the degrading nature of it, but she loved the sensations running through her body because it was naughty and completely out of her comfort zone. Just to briefly explain why it ended...she became an alcoholic from other external pressures, and Id still like to find another like her.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    In a true Dom/sub experience the sub ultimately has the power. I know it seems contradictory but when a sub gives complete control to a Dom it passes on a very real responsibility. A responsibility that a real Dom takes seriously.

  • pet_aw

    pet_aw

    2 years ago

    I am a slave to my master. I give ongoing consent to our BDSM activities. If I were to ever ( I haven’t as yet) use my safe word for stop my Master would immediately. It’s all about pleasure for the both of us.