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How to find female friend to go to clubs
March 19 2025
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Flirty2020
14 days ago
So you want to gain entry to a swingers club, masquerading as a couple, on nights that only couples/ females are allowed?
šæboobsandbusted
14 days ago
I think you should go to a site like this one and post a thread about your problem and see if the helpful people in the group will post some of rightfully less than helpful but funny answers to your dilemma, ,good luck š
MrandMrsEss
14 days ago
You employ a call girl and you show her respect and enjoy her services and you DO NOT take her to the club lying about your relationship (as I have seen done before)
If you want a root and canāt score one off your own merits then you stump up and pay for it. Simples.
FeistyFatty
14 days ago
I'm the wife of a genuine swinging couple and I absolutely hate when people do this!!!! This is so deceptive and (personally speaking) makes for a negative experience for all involved as there's a palpable lack of connection in the fake couple.
BiPeggyGal
14 days ago
Woah, your profile name. Okey-dokey ....
Pangolin28
14 days ago
Sorry I know nothing of this and I would say most who do go would not like this type of entry into a club.
But honest question to the couples who do go.
What if a single lass was timid to go by herself. Is it acceptable for her to have just a chaperone?
Never been and not really my thing but I would be happy to chaperone and just help her enjoy the night no sexual goings on from myself, just an eyeopener to that world.
Would that be acceptable?
Briscouple29
14 days ago
You are better of going alone on a night where singles are allowed, or go to a social mixer (again where singles are allowed), and form a connection there.
As per the replies, most are not keen to mingle with a fake couple on couples only nights. It ruins the experience.
If you enter a relationship or have a fwb, provided are both on board, go to couples nights after that.seekandplay
13 days ago
Iām coming in hot as the Single F, as once again the couples always think these experiences are about them. I have had FAR WORSE experiences with couples trying to use me as their āunicornā than I have with Single M. Not ALL single M are jerks. I am part of an amazing community where there are genuinely beautiful single men all part of this wild world. If one of them wants to go to a venue or party, you bet our group of women are saying yep, weāll go, weāll take you.
Youāre telling me there are NO couples that might want to explore with a Single M? Wrong. Youāre telling me couples just want to play with couples? Wrong.
YES - single Mās have made things a lot more difficult for themselves. Coupled Mās are equally just as disgusting at times. I have recently had a horrid experience at a party by a man who was there with his wife.
Now that my rant is over, here is my adviceā¦.
Get yourself to mixers. There are plenty that allow single M. Immerse yourself in these events, get to know people and then youāll start to find out the parties in your area for vetting. Keep an eye on venues that open up for Single mās. Find yourself a FWB via RHP or Feeld, for example. Make your intention CLEAR in your description what you are hoping to achieve from the friendship.
Read previous posts in this forum. This has been answered quite a few times too.
RachWandered
13 days ago
Just reading the thread now ā¦ is it that youāre more of a voyeur? Have you tried putting up a datefinder just to watch a couple play? If not apologies if Iāve got the wrong end of the stick
Good luck with it x
MsSuperFoxy
13 days ago
You got a friend you can trust or sister you could go with, on 1st night who could watch your back?
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ReyandJean
7 days ago
You're set on going with a female partner, despite the advice to attend on a singles night.
Just pays your money (that you could use for a professional sex worker) and attend a club night that allows singles. You'll just be an anonymous face in a crowd, lost and lonely. But at least you'll have some idea about what goes on which will help you in your search for a wingwoman.
Just a thought - if you're uncomfortable simply attending a club, will you be able to get naked in front of people or have a conversation with the naked male partners of women attending the club?
There's a point where you need to put on your grown-up pants and accept you'll be uncomfortable in order to achieve your objective of sex you don't pay directly for.
Kinkyncurvy88
3 days ago
Also single female here. I would start by updating your profile and adding a photo etc.
Use date finder and start with making some female friends that way.
I have also gone with single male friends to couples nights and had an absolute ball.
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