M35 F30
Newbies looking to find Mr Right
December 08 2018
First post for us, so far we have been surfing the internet trying to figure out the best way to go about all this. Recently I opened up to my partner about my fantasies of being a stag and she loved it, we have even started organising with a good mutual friend of ours for them to have a play date and hopefully can develop it into where I can film, and engage. We are in a very healthy and happy relationship raising a child together and have gone through all of the pros and cons and ensured we both have no hang ups about the whole deal. Needless to say we are both waiting in anticipation for this journey to begin.
We have been looking at clubs, poly nights, things like that but they don't seem to appeal to what we are looking for, we are looking to meet open minded male friends who we can enjoy sexual experiences with. Obviously you can go online and find anyone with a dick looking to fuck but again that's not really what we want, it would be nice to meet people organically and get to know them and if we both agree (which we usually do) invite them to play. I am really into the idea of making a film series about the whole thing for our personal enjoyment now and in the future, obviously we would never publish it.
Not sure if you guys have the answers but we thought we would put this up here and see what kind of suggestions and responses we get.
Thanks
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RHP User
5 years ago
Well I certainly hope you guys find what you are looking for so best of luck to you. You both are young so there's plenty of time so don't get disheartened if you don't find it right away.
Some people go their whole lives without finding the right person let alone what you guys are after.RHP User
5 years ago
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RHP User
5 years ago
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Aristippusx2
5 years ago
Hi Melbkinkcpl,
Welcome to the journey.
From your post we can see you have put a lot of background checking and thoughts into your choices.
Can we suggest a less rocky path and firstly think more deeply about organising a mutual friend to participate.
As bizarre as it seems you should firstly participate with those that don't have any existing vanilla connection with, if play doesn't proceed as you desire there is less emotional fallout.
Try attending meet and greets or social events posted on this and other sites to locate those persons more compatible with your ideals.
Once again welcomeRHP User
5 years ago
A profile picture would be a good start
RHP User
5 years ago
We are worried about putting our faces out there. Well Mr is, he is very well known in the community and doesn't want to expose himself to any issues at work or such. Probably paranoia on his part.
So far we are doing research, we have a play mate already who is a very open and mutual friend of ours. He is a great guy and know no matter what happens we will never be awkward with each other. He was my partners fuck buddy years ago, I think he is just a little nervous as its his first experience with this kind of thing to. But plans keep falling through for one reason or another. So far its once him once us so who knows. Hopefully no cold feet.
We are interested in finding events with little pressure to meet people and were wondering if there was any advice on which were best around Melbourne CBD.
FredAndGinger2
5 years ago
Our advice is to start with a few social meetups and get to know others.. Check out the RHP events page
RHP User
5 years ago
Thanks guys,
We actually have some very open friends who have some very interesting relationship types, some of them have been fuck buddies with the missus in the past. Plus the Mr is good friends with them, we have talked to them about it but it seems people keep getting cold feet, unfortunately. I guess its hard for others to really gauge how we really feel and we are in a very long term and connected relationship. We have spoken to a few people online, but the thought of a stranger coming around or meeting them somewhere seems somehow more daunting than the friends we already know are open.
The journey itself has already spiced up our relationship and we are on the same page in terms of what we want. The fantasy so far alone has already spiced things up, but we are anxious to push our limits and explore.
Cuckold seems to have such negative ideas attached, that is not what we are about; MMF appeals to both of us so much more than FMF. All the focus on the lady is so hot, whether sharing or even filming/watching. It seems so hard to actually organise, perhaps we shall try a social event in the new years and hopefully not meet any creepers.
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