🍍 Now I Understand Why Couples Go to Swinger Clubs Instead 🍍

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  Wecome

  2 days ago

  We do love the social meet n greets, Red Sparrow and Luxe work for us...

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  MrandMrsEss

  2 days ago

  Feel your pain. We often feel like the square block trying to fit into a round hole. The online experience is just as you describe for most people we have discussed it with but then swingers clubs are just too impersonal for us although for some reason we’ve had a ball at some overseas more than local ones. My thoughts are that the Aussie scene is so small so there isn’t a huge range of experiences to be had and we see the same people at most events so if you haven’t connected already the chances are against you. For us, it’s highlighted just how lucky we are to enjoy what we have together and for some time we go into anything new with the attitude that we are going to have the best sex at the end of the night whether anyone is joining us or not. This has resulted in very few notches on the bedpost but fuck me the few that are there are sure great memories!

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  MsSuperFoxy

  2 days ago

  Haaa but wait! What you’re actually looking for is the all exclusive unicorn (as stated on your profile). She gets to decide and chooses. Probably going to be difficult though when Mr is the one running the account, especially with emoji over face pics on the profile. You're actually wasting her time going back and fourth with messages requesting face pics etc. Because she has to be attracted to you both before proceeding any further You maybe right about clubs/parties, however she doesn't hang out there all the time tho. Ms Foxy

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  PartnersnCrime

  2 days ago

  Oh gosh yes, this is so relatable! Saying that traditional online dating never worked for me either for the same reasons. Our issue isn't so much radio silence or last-minute cancellations (those happen, life is life) but more that you can have really great chat online, and then you meet in person and the attraction just isn't there. And when you've planned a whole night around it, organised a babysitter, gotten dressed up and walked into a restaurant, only to know within the first five seconds that it's not your kind of people... you still have to politely sit through the whole evening and then find a way to explain there's no after party. It's a lot of effort for what can be a very awkward outcome. What we've found works so much better is seeing people in real life first. RHP parties give you that. You can see people in real life, whether there's a natural attraction, and if there is, you take it from there. We do find clubs a little rushed for our taste, everyone seems to be moving to rooms very quickly, which isn't really our vibe. So for now our sweet spot is parties to connect, then follow-up dates with the couples we clicked with, sometimes with a bit of pre-chat on RHP or WhatsApp to keep things warm in between. It's working for us.

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  Andrea_Sydney

  2 days ago

  You have a great profile! It’s well-written, your validations are amazing and your pics give a great insight into how you both look without giving away your faces. You are flagging you will reveal your faces on matching too, which is important. One of my annoyances on rhp is couples who expect an extended message exchange and several promises of discretion before showing their faces. Ugh! And then you message with effort and all that, only to receive a blurry pic with sunnies … I no longer bother with couples that are too shy to show their faces. The other thing I find frustrating is photos are attractive, ours are confirmed as attractive, the messaging seems to flow, you made a lot of effort…only to find out wifey hasn’t actually seen the pics yet. Takes one look and says nah. So also with this, I ask immediately whether she’s seen the pics too before I continue. I will be honest and say that it’s usually me who loses interest in the messaging back and forth, sometimes of course also the other side isn’t into our pics, attraction 4-ways is hard to come by and I do believe you have that quite right - it’s better done in person! My honest rhp breakdown: Couples - for events, messaging saying saw you are going as well and connecting that way - we met some really lovely couples and singles that way who we also ended up playing with. But never once did any connection coming only from rhp messaging result in actual playing for us. Singles - yes. We met and played with singles off here. My personal opinion is that a 4-way attraction is so difficult to have that there’s only actual results if we meet them in person at events. Things that I would feel as “unattractive” in a photo are suddenly totally fine or even attractive when accompanied with someone’s witty way of talking or gentle voice or sexy eyes. As four people have to agree, it’s my opinion and experience that only actual meet ups work, whether for plain meet & greet or play parties. Your profile is lovely - definitely wishing you all the best!

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  TheNLMevents

  2 days ago

  Exactly why we host meet and greets in Newcastle. Genuine people, social, no play pressure so good for those new or curious about the lifestyle.

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  NorseHeat

  2 days ago

  Yes!!! This is how I feel spot on. We love the clubs, the night is what you make it. Everyone is there to meet people. If you don’t vibe with others, that’s ok! If you are a couple you have each other to have fun with and my husband will always be my preferred play mate, so either way is always a win for me 😍

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  AsianLady4711

  23 hours ago

  It's harder than you think to get laid off this site about 1 in 6 success rate

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  sublime

  6 hours ago

  I’m so glad you bought this up , have experienced flaky experiences from all profiles be it Male , couples or females, I have decided that I will only go to well organised hotel parties or events moving forward. I have met some genuine awesome couples on here, so I will always be happy to reconnect with people I have met

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