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Why do swingers clubs get busy so late?

May 13 2021

Hi everyone... when we've been to a few different clubs in London and Sydney, if you arrive when the club opens around 9pm it does not get busy until about 11pm/midnight.

Asking as we are early birds, so by midnight we are often feeling sleepy just as things get going. We usually have another drink, get a second wind and enjoy ourselves... but it has always intrigued me.

So my question... to you folks who come at 11pm/midnight... are you coming then because that is when everyone else comes? Or are you coming then because you don't want to be the first to arrive? Or do you do something else, like meet friends, until 11pm and then head to the swingers club afterwards? Why does everyone get there so late?

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    3 years ago

    Well thinking back when l had couple profiles, it depends on the event. We usually aimed for an hour after the start of the event, nothing worse than first there.
    Sometimes we had vanilla functions to get out of the way first.
    So depends. Other times some alcohol required first so a drink session before the Uber

  • CandiKane

    CandiKane

    3 years ago

    We would love to be there at opening time but responsibilities never seem to allow it. Prior to Covid it was a struggle to make 11. Post Covid we haven’t yet made it at all. :(

  • Bi_Fem

    Bi_Fem

    3 years ago

    I usually get there just after they open, unless meeting beforehand for drinks, but always there by 10 as iv found the opposite since covid. I do notice that the move to play can sometimes take awhile on certain nights lol I guess it might depend on which club as to the late arrivals

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    3 years ago

    Youth? Back in my vanilla clubbing days unless I was working there I'd never dream of rocking up before 11.

    But I also had no problems being up until dawn.

    With regards to swingers clubs in Australia I think it takes the people there some time to warm up so maybe the late arrivals are waiting until the mood has been set.

    London I think is a bit different, it (pre-covid) was a late night kind of city with lots going on. But personally I found the parties there kicked off quite early.

    Clubs there definitely seemed to take a while before the nights kicked off.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    3 years ago

    Oh hell yes ,we wish things would get down and dirty earlier , this getting in at 4 am is starting to get really old really quick ,just not worth the after effects ,no matter how fun the night wad ,last saints , we got home at 4 am took an hour to wind down ,body clock kicked As soon as the sun came up ,blehhh ,took us both a week to recover , 😪😪😪😪

  • SAM_ANISSA

    SAM_ANISSA

    2 years ago

    We love having sexy pre drinks somewhere beforehand.
    The excitement of knowing where the evening could and should possibly go always feeling so good as we get more and more exciters and horny, plus it’s nice to have to have a choice and some vodka supplied confidence when you do arrive a little later on to play ..