What should nerdy men do to get women attention ?

April 06 2020

I know women seem to get crazy about men who posses hyper-masculine persona, which we rarely find in nerdy guys and they often get passed up more than they should


- Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    If you mean in person, im a sucker for a guy who oozes confidence but not arrogance.

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    No photo and the need to say " discreet" a few times. Also....who lives at Perth Airport? I read this as you are hiding something. Maybe that is putting people off. Nothing wrong with being nerdy, in fact, I find nerdy guys very interesting.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Each to their own I guess? Every woman has their own taste and not all of them are probably looking for that masculine body? Attractiveness can be someone’s mind, humour, communication etc...not just on looks. It also depends on what they are looking for as well? But that is my opinion anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    That all men, nerds, macho, simps and jocks fuck up the most when they think with there dicks, that’s when the bad calls are made.

    Own your nerd be your best nerd, not all women will like that, not all women will go for that but most women will respect a man who owns his competence whatever he does/is.

    One other thing, always remember you are the prize, at least as much as she is. 😇👍

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    4 years ago

    Be yourself!

    We woman have individual tastes. Mine has never been ripped abs, actually the only man who looked like that who I agreed to a date with ended up being a complete tool. (Not saying all are like that, just my one experience).

    Me personally, am always attracted to someone's mind. Conversation has to be about things that stimulate my senses, expand my mind. Find a partner you have a connection with and blow her away with the sexiness of your nerdiness. Trust me, there are those out there that melt for conversations on everything nerd like, you will find her by putting your true self out there and not being someone you are not.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    4 years ago

    Step away from the computer, the stereotypes are burning your retinas.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love my computer games, my star wars and science fiction but I also keep myself physically fit and display confidence and competence.

    If you're just asking why women don't go for unmasculin men then ask yourself why men go for women with nice tits and arse. We just find certain things attractive.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Well buddy kinda looks like your beliefs about attraction so far are somewhat flawed.

    From the responses so far I’ve read, they’ve mostly responded about being individual.

    If that means for you, you’re nerdy, be nerdy as it will attract those whom are most suited to your genuine self, cos let’s be real about this; no one, not even yourself would want to feel as though you have to imitate something you’re not....that’s only going to end up toxic.

    But....

    Social intelligence is entirely something you can work on just like someone with a 6 pack works on keeping it....I’m too protective of mine though I’ve wrapped my under fat 😂😂

    I’d also suggest we are ALL nerdy about the stuff we are passionate about....Bill gates, Greta Thunberg, Tesla, Alexander Graham Bell just to name a few examples...

    Mr Dragon

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I think you’ll find there’s plenty of muscle bound, tattooed, “masculine” men who also don’t get much attention on here, the older you get the less that shit matters and the more it becomes about personality. Well that’s what I’ve found anyway...

    Ms Phoenix.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Book smart & quirky, never a dull moment as they say and from my experience its the quiet ones you have to watch out for.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    First I appreciate all advices and tips from all of you , still new to this site that’s why needed some suggestions.”be yourself” well it’s easy to say but hard it comes to everyday life. I am passionate about things I am pretty much in understanding things instead of just knowing. I spend most of my free time on reading. When it comes to music I only listen classical. So considering all these aspects I feel like I should have been boomer instead of millennial.

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    Nerdy
    As Dee Dee and others have stated , us women have varied tastes , wants and expectations . Personally I love someone that’s good with the chat , can make me laugh and be engaging . Patience is the key on RHP . My main piece of advice is to just be YOU . That will stand you in good stead, lead you to being relaxed in conversation and hopefully to meeting like minded souls .
    Goodluck .
    A