Ex007

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Toxic Femininity

June 22 2022

My observation and interactions over the years with RHP has brought me to an understanding that many of the men here have been the victim of toxic femininity.

Toxic femininity seems to be out of control in epidemic proportions. Men are being gaged silent and they are suffering at the hands of toxic nasty bitches. I can only assume men stay silent because of a perceived sense of being embarrassed for reporting their partner for emotional, psychological and financial abuse. Which is in fact domestic violence. I would like to hear from men who have experienced this?
How did you cope?
What did you do for help?
I hope that your answers assist someone who may be experiencing toxic femininity right now.

If you are a toxic female and feel the need to respond with your 2 cents worth. Go right ahead then all the guys will know who to block. Consider it as posting your own community service announcement.

Comments

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  • PleasureSeekers2

    1 month ago

    Weird post. So weird.

    You're on an adult sex site, listening to mens' sob stories (some true, many probably not / 100% one-sided) so they can get in your pants, and you're calling out "toxic femininity"?

    Did it work on you? How many of those men did you shag? Have you bought your sign / coloured it in for the weekend parade?

  • Rising_Phoenix

    1 month ago

    Wow, this makes YOU look toxic. Yikes!
    Why would you even make this about gender? We all know it comes from people on both sides, bad behaviour has no gender and by mentioning it you’re only encouraging a slinging match, something that’s also evident in the way you’ve worded your post.

    Maybe calm down a bit...some things are more gender specific but domestic abuse isn’t one of them.

    My condolences to anyone of either gender who experiences toxic behaviours from others, it’s a shit time indeed and I hope you bounce back better than ever!

  • Mischeviouslad

    1 month ago

    Show me on the doll where womankind hurt you

    😆



    Fella, you’re obviously not enjoying your experiences and interactions with women in this world to labour over writing that piece.

    Did you think posting it publicly would help change that?

    Your time is better served in other pursuits that DO make you happy

    🤦‍♂️

  • Notice_Me

    1 month ago

    @PleasureSeekers2 the normal feminist line: that anything negative about a woman is strictly the result of stupid sad men and narrow-minded misogyny.

    Abuse is abuse.
    Being male doesn't make you immune.
    Being female doesn't make it less harmful.

  • countrytouch82

    1 month ago

    @Mischeviouslad Just checking, as you wrote "fella", to note the OP is a woman. Although, I would add, one of my BFFs is a woman and she absolutely prefers the company of men over other women. Different strokes for different folks I guess, gender based or otherwise.

  • countrytouch82

    1 month ago

    Dunno. I'd make a few random and unordered observations from life:

    1. Men and women can indeed be c**ts, directed to men or women or all. They might defend themselves based on their gender, but often it's just their own individual issues, such as inflated self entitlement or self importance.

    2. I'm essentially a life long single yet still love and adore women in general. I certainly don't hold any grudges to a gender, if not any individuals.

    3. I don't feel silenced or restricted much. If I do, it's from excessive PC police, which is why I love stand up comedians who can still take the piss about everything in life (cue Ricky). But this is not necessarily related to gender.

    4. Some examples of what some might define as toxic women are labelled as "Karens" and are easily found on you tube. In seriousness some people can indeed have their lives or livelihoods affected by online or offline lynchings, but a mob or bullying mentality exists among many types of groups and between groups, that may or may not be gendered. Double standards abound. See point 1.

    5. I like dogs. (Told you the points were random) :p

  • Introfiant_sub

    1 month ago

    I don’t think RHP would be a reliable source to gauge female DV. The number of men on here cheating on their wives who justify it with weak excuses would lead me to believe you’ve been told a few fibs to get you fired up.

  • KindaOldButNew

    1 month ago

    @Mischeviouslad EX007 is a lady not a bloke.

  • Ex007

    1 month ago

    Here's your sign guys. This is on for the block list. Toxic absolutely toxic

  • Ex007

    1 month ago

    I am the poster. I am female. I also worked as a first responder for 18yrs. I have witnessed more men suffering from domestic violence then woman. It just goes completely unreported because it’s viewed as socially acceptable for woman to emotional, psychological and financially abuse men.

    My interactions here has reminded me of those times. Where I have seen men used and abused. These are confident well spoken, well educated men who only want to take care of their family.

    Bra burners beat the drum all the time on women DV. They get enough airplay. This post is about men, they are entitled to a voice.

    Obviously, the consensus here is that men are not entitled to be heard. I guess some people are a part of the problem and others are a part of the solution.

  • Flirty2020

    1 month ago

    We find your post to be toxic and full of anger. Our 2 cents worth .

  • FiestyFatty

    1 month ago

    This is actually a very interesting topic and Hubby and I have discussed this ad nauseum in recent months.

    Keen to see what others say and if anything constructive comes from your OP.

    Side note..... Agree with OP, there is a quiet culture of "toxic femininity" which we're all aware of, may have been guilty of and all should call out.... Same as "toxic masculinity" just not as PC.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    1 month ago

    Okaaaay...Please exclude me from your "nasty, toxic bitches" labelling criteria. That's not for you to decide, especially when you've never met 99.99% of the ladies here or in society.

    As my Nana always stated, never ever call anyone a "bitch", because you will appear jealous of there success.

    I'm not sure what else to say, so I'll sit over her, watch and observe from the sideline.

    Ms Foxy

  • Rising_Phoenix

    1 month ago

    @Ex007 Problem is you’re abusive too so as if anyone’s going to listen to you and have a decent conversation about it, you’re being mighty hypocritical here. I’m not seeing any consensus that men should not be heard either, when you’re ready to discuss people’s behaviour without the intent of slagging off a whole gender maybe you should try again.

  • Rising_Phoenix

    1 month ago

    You may also want to actually look up toxic femininity 🙄
    “Toxic femininity refers to the adherence to the gender binary in order to receive conditional value in patriarchal societies. It is a concept that restricts women to being cooperative, passive, sexually submissive, gentle, and deriving their value from physical beauty while being pleasing to men.”

  • sizzle100

    1 month ago

    @SuperFoxxxy sometimes on here its better to say nothing and listen then talk for the sake of your own opinion. Think she's asking us all to look at the other side of the equation. Open mindedness is so rare these days with such a lazy voice on social medias.
    Watch me get smashed from the the warriors....

  • sizzle100

    1 month ago

    @sizzle100 that actually was'nt directed at you SuperFoxxy...dont know why your name came up, that looks so bad.sorry. Bella

  • Oil_beef_Hooked

    1 month ago

    @SuperFoxxxy That’s I think a point the OP is getting at, that many men are tarred with the one brush yet those doing the tarring have never met them and often those men have no recourse to defend themselves.
    Outside of RHP many men (loving fathers) are denied a relationship with their children and are forced to prove they are innocent of accusations made about them to perpetuate the denial of their children.
    I’ve seen the results personally ( mates) but this kind of emotional/financial abuse of men is never reported. Men are on a hiding to nothing.
    Now not for one moment do I believe all women are like this, but on sites such as this it appears that it’s accepted that guys can be treated rudely regardless, and yes the toxic men have much to answer for that.

    At the end of the day my catchphrase of let’s all not be dicks I think is pretty relevant

  • countrytouch82

    1 month ago

    @Ex007 Speaking as a man, I/we may understand where you (the OP) is coming from, and we may or may not relate also to the replies, but frankly we will also decide for ourselves who to block and who not to. And in any case on here men don't really receive contact much anyway, so the blocking thing from our side is kind of redundant.

  • countrytouch82

    1 month ago

    @Oil_beef_Hooked Your point has been proven in situational experiments. They film a man abusing a woman in public, witnesses are shocked and/or intervene. They film a woman abusing a man in public, female witnesses are apathetic or even laugh, as if to say finally a man gets his comeuppance, or that he must be weak, or guilty of something.

    Both situations are inherently wrong of course, it's a problem for society to decide how to react to both. These differences an allegory of all differences in society.

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