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Stop the window shopping!
January 12 2021
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MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
We do deserve better. However at the end of the day we choose how we want to be treated. Some will accept shady behaviours, thats ok if they want that. so it's those people we should be thanking because when a guy does meet a good woman who will not put up with shifty behaviours, they either move on or step up.
Ms FoxyMsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
And its women too, who can be shady just as bad or even worse. So let's not put all the blame on men. I know as I have seen down right filth/crass emails, pictures, web cams (chat rooms), out in public with vile behavours that are embarrassing etc. If anything I believe women can be a lot worse then men.
Ms Foxy
FeistyFatty
3 years ago
Simple... dont do the chat. Dont send the pics. Dont engage with the window lickers. Its not hard. Once you stop entertaining the masses and focus on what you really want from RHP.... your experience will improve.
Freaky_Fun
3 years ago
I never lost the power and neither have my friends 🤷♀️
compressor
3 years ago
If a lady wanted to meet me i would be honest with her and would follow through with what i say i would do
nightingale8
3 years ago
Yes it’s it’s a skill navigating the dating scape. I don’t think I’ve got it down yet! Though when it comes down to being treated with respect I have a very low threshold for weeding out time wasters and people who push my boundaries of consent (ok it’s a bit over sensitive but the right people have shone through). I’m currently reading “see what you made me do” by Jess Hill. Dark topic on domestic abuse but shines a light on how to change how women are treated.
RHP User
3 years ago
I just don’t even bother, you can spot the window shoppers almost immediately and they’re easily discouraged with template rejection message so it’s just *click, click, boom* and they’re gone, lol.
funtimescouple1
3 years ago
It can be the same with couples or one member of a couple. We live in a virtual reality world these days and then the virus has made meeting up more difficult and less appealing too. Also some people just don't have good face to face communication skills these days. They are far more confident being keyboard warriors. Some aren't even good at that! Just don't get sucked in.
RHP User
3 years ago
Never accept less than being treated as decent human being. I dont have a problem telling people either. On my profile it says I will report profiles if they are. Yet it still comes as a surprise when I do.
I see it as doing my part in trying to bring up low standard of behaviour online. There are consequences to bad or abusive chat if you use them.
68Monkeys
3 years ago
My experience has been varied. From fake profiles, window lickers, double profiles and shit stirring ghost are not gender biased. Maybe verification should become mandatory to weed out undesirables.
RHP User
3 years ago
It's window shopping only in WA this week.
Cumdownunder
3 years ago
I honestly think rhp and dating sites are similar we all start with a visual for attraction, many people do read profiles but one word can easily be misinterpreted or perceived a different way between different people. We can see common themes and likes and dislikes in a profile if written accurately. I think for genuine trust and connection both must share faces that is courtesy. Both sees are guilty over sharing windows licking pics on sites. I find it ironic the next step is kik which predominantly is used for more pic swaps. If both parties were interested and genuine you would swap numbers after some time in msging get voice cues learn someone's humour their views their instant response in real time see if the conversation flows. You can block a number and it's a digital footprint for your safety. If you can't chat on the phone and clash don't meet simple, no harm no foul.
RHP User
3 years ago
I see that most of the postings on this question is from women, so maybe its time for a mans perspective to be heard. I don't think its a simple cut and dried issue of one gender being more guilty of 'Window Shopping' than another. In my experience females do it just as much, and when it comes to finger pointing it depends from what standpoint one comes from. This issue occurs on most dating /hookup sites on the internet and one can more or less count on 50% of the profiles being fake or computer generated. A dead give away I have found here is when the preferred age in a profile mentions 20-99 and very little about their bio. Even the so called 'Trusted' sites which have been operating for some time do not moderate to the degree they should, because it limits traffic and they rely on revenue from subliminal or in your face adverts that proliferate the site. Researching a site is always a good idea. A good tip I learnt was to join a site, without completing a profile or uploading a picture and see how long it takes for offers to flood in and swamp the inbox. That is a dead give away its all fake bots with pictures robbed for the internet. Internet dating/hookups is not easy, but that is no reason to suspect everyone on a site is phony and out to either scam you or molest. Its a case of having a common sense approach, sometimes in short supply, to find genuine people.
FitFreeFlyn
3 years ago
I’ll new but I wouldn’t stand any of you ladies up.
No to wank bank
Nothing better than real deal and when ones syncRHP User
3 years ago
As a single heterosexual sexual male who has been on and off dating sites for 20 years here are a few universal truths from my experiences:
1. 98% of my messages have gone unreturned.
2. People are flaky messy fucked up suffering not ready to date but they lack the maturity and self awareness to recognise that.
3. There are an equal amount of poor quality tyrekicking time wasting degenerates of both sexes.
4. The sad reality is it will never get better. The trick is to eradicate all the false positives and seek out that diamond that is left from the cesspit of humanity.
5. Making it anti male or anti female males it so much worse.RHP User
3 years ago
I first explored online dating back when it wasn't considered the norm, way back in 2002-2004. I'm afraid little has changed. It really is a window shopping exercise and people need to prepare themselves for that reality.
I say to my women friends, if he is chatting to you, he is always chatting to how many others. That's how it is. It's an easy medium for people to get creative with their relationship status as well, among other things. It all depends on what a person is seeking from the outset and being prepared for as many permutations as possible, and even then, there are surprises. The reality is that a portion of people are not living in reality.RHP User
3 years ago
They are douchbags , I’d love to meet up with one of you beautiful ladies in brissy
Ell_uno
3 years ago
@cumdownunder and @peterlang20 you are realest I also do same trick with the profile don’t put a pic and wait for the real ones. Women are bad as men when it comes to window licking but they want to pretend they don’t do it because their integrity in check. We all need physical attraction at some point and all these exchange nudes should be mutual unless you are donor😜. No one is better than the other we are all guilty and the ratio of exchange should be 1:1 depending on how you feel period.
Notsocurious
3 years ago
yes the common first question do you have any pics or vids!!! Lol
sweetnsensual
3 years ago
Its not just a problem for single women. We work positively with bad behaviour and try and adjust the single guys behaviour, they often are apologetic when their behaviour is pointed out. We try and educate the guys that they will go a lot better with polite decent interaction.
InTimMate
3 years ago
Like SuperFoxxxy said, some will want/accept the poor behaviour. Each to their own.
On the flip side, there are the negative profiles, telling people all their dislikes and past grievances.
That's not for me, but who knows... it may be just right for someone else.RHP User
2 years ago
I've constantly experienced this from both sides. Couples females and males talking sex and swapping pics and then just ghost you so I don't think it's just one sided
RHP User
2 years ago
Yes happened to me - pretended to want to meet up and as soon as I want to he ghosted me.
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