F44
Question for the men
April 30 2021
I recently found my partner has bought condoms and we don't use them. He says that they are for when he masterbates, that he puts lube on and then the condom and the feeling is amazing. From my experience, guys don't like wearing them. So, do you do it too or is he having a lend of me?
Comments
RHP User
3 years ago
Condoms make for an easy cleanup after the fact and the feel is ok , but for better results use skin tight gloves like a surgical glove or similar with lube ,
NewVicCpl
3 years ago
Yeah nah, I hate them so only wear them whilst we are at parties playing with others.
Probably go with your gut on this one unfortunatelyRHP User
3 years ago
I have watched him do exactly that. He says it’s feels good to him
RHP User
3 years ago
Never done that or heard of it. Sounds weird to me, I think he has other plans sorry.
SpicyKale
3 years ago
Sort of like using a fleshlight at a guess! I played around with using them when we first got into the lifestyle. It'd been about fifteen years since we'd used them and I was getting the little head used to the feeling again! Not always the easiest thing to stay hard in one if it's been an age.... I wouldn't call in the firing squad just yet! On a positive note, if it's what you're thinking at least he's using condoms and you are on a site that's for non monogamous folk.
MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
Taking notes for research purposes. ✍
Ms FoxySawadee
3 years ago
I loathe condoms with a passion. Nothing better than the feel of a warm pussy in its natural state. For me ' condoms deaden the sensation ,... But as annoying as it ' l still use them out of necessity.. The only time id mastrubate with one ' is when the juices are flowing a little too much and the condom is too tight.. grrrrrr... not a good combination...
AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
Single female profile questioning the ethics of her partner.
There are so many questions......MsSuperFoxy
3 years ago
Research....
URBAN DICTIONARY
Posh wank
1. To wank using a condom.
2. Or, if you're really posh, get your butler/maid to do it.
"Think I'll have a posh wank, don't want to make a mess."
Ms Foxy 😀 💅RHP User
3 years ago
Men who do this are just wankers!
Chrisblack
3 years ago
Sometimes I’ll do this if I know I’m going to parties that I know I have to use condoms, keeps you harder when playing for extended periods of time without coming. Also use condoms if using a flesh light for say clean up and also extending orgasm.
RHP User
3 years ago
have done so from time to time. also use them on the toys when we are away. That being said I used to investigate partners 20 something years ago and one thing we did learn was to trust your gut. IF all you have found are condoms but nothing else is making you question then it would be harmless. IF your gut is telling you something is up. then that's usually your subconscious mind picking up the smaller details that your conscious mind cant or refuses to acknowledge
RHP User
3 years ago
He's having a lend of you Miasha ........
boobsandbusted
3 years ago
Not for me, but that not saying that some men would like it with a lot of lube, why not get him to show you how it work for him I’m sure you would know pretty quickly whether he enjoys it or not
Mr B
NEWHOTCOUPLE
3 years ago
He’s fucking someone else
jlh76
3 years ago
I think you already know he's probably not telling you the whole truth. Condoms are shit
RHP User
3 years ago
crap.
RHP User
3 years ago
Na prefer not to.
FunLovinLovinFun
3 years ago
I’ve never tried - will definitely give it a go and report back ... so we’re tqlking condom and lube ... got it ... back in a sec ... if it’s good 🤪
1979upforfun69
3 years ago
Never!!
tommygunmak
3 years ago
Strange fella
RHP User
3 years ago
Yeah sometimes, if they are close to the use by date. 🤔🙄😏
RHP User
3 years ago
Only tarp up on public transport or the movie theatre... or when the bans are in place, stuff you covid !
JamesTKirk
3 years ago
Completely on board with your partner. Condom with some lube inside....able to slide the condom up and down shaft and over the head....much better and more comfortable than no condom. Bonus....no clean up...and the condom catches any precum.
mark3218
3 years ago
No his cheating that's just weird no one dose that
sonicload
3 years ago
getting him to show you at least you will see if it is a good experience for him or not then you can make a decision.
RHP User
3 years ago
Dare say a 'single' female here looking for guys ??? You don't think your partner is doing the same !
FrequentFlyers
3 years ago
You’re on this site... looking for fun... maybe he is too??
RHP User
3 years ago
Swear I saw this exact question on Reddit . But nope can’t imagine how it makes it feel anything but numb and less feeling cleanup? There’s better ways than spreading it all over you hard cock stuck in a rubber! Maybe suggest he shows you and you can see if he really is enjoying it? But I think it’s what you suspect when asking sorry.
RHP User
3 years ago
Maybe hes having a wank inside other girls?
RHP User
3 years ago
He is fooling around-I don’t wear them as I shoot blanks and only with someone new
Thisldo
3 years ago
He’s having his cake and eating it
Ell_uno
3 years ago
I love condoms only for safe sex coz I think with so many partners and invites you would want to be clean.
Sex_magic
3 years ago
No don't wear them, can't stand the smell of burning rubber :)
RHP User
3 years ago
I have done that with out of date condoms, it changes how masturbating feels. I like pulling the skin down the shaft, the condom stretches around the head giving a pleasant feel. And yes easy clean up 😜
RHP User
3 years ago
I use them because its an easy clean up, feels different when I stroke it and I dont come as quick while I wear them!
robert12
3 years ago
he have a lend at you
mrmike2455
3 years ago
Condoms are used to stop getting pregnant or STD's
When I wank I love to see it squirt out, Why would i bother with a condom.
liam93
3 years ago
Does he allow you to do it for him while he has the lube and condom on or is this more of a solo act
Somensafun
3 years ago
I did it once in my early teens to see what it was like, but never since. I think it was trying it on to seesaw to roll it on... so finished the job off.
gaz188
3 years ago
i've masturbated into on before but it was more because i was making a short video of cumming for a girl i was sexting at the time
RHP User
3 years ago
I’ve done it before. Like people have said, it makes clean up easier but I also found condoms make me last longer so leads to a better orgasm.
Striptease_Lover
2 years ago
yes, i enjoy wearing them when i jerk off. they're not ideal when having sex but for masturbating they're great because i can use my hand to adjust how tight the grip is. plus they make the mess easier to clean up.
RHP User
2 years ago
Now that's thinking on your feet If I've ever seen it. I have to remember this one for the day my wife discovers my stash of condoms (which I don't to masturbate with)
Skippy78
2 years ago
no just cum on my self
User_fr1endly
a year ago
He's either masturbating publicly or in a blue cinema if it's for easy clean up which I actually rekon it's not. Dick gets covered in cum sometimes...needs towelling sometimes after lol. So yeah ....public jerk orrrr he's full of shit
madotara69
a year ago
What sort of condom?
If it’s the re-invented condom from Lelo, then yeah for sure, they’re awesome with no heat transfer loss, totally worth benefit of doubt and if you are genuinely interested wanting to enjoy the conversation, he may not feel embarrassed of sorts.
Mado
Mado Tara xx
Triton2650
a year ago
It's a different feeling and you fill it with lube, close to the real thing
Steveh41
a year ago
Yes, I have used a condom to wank into on occasion. I’ve also used a latex glove. They both give a different sensation and make cleanup easier.
SEXUALPLAY5
a year ago
It’s not a preference to masturbating that way I do it as it’s easy to clean up .
him14
9 months ago
Surely that’s a pokie pie ??
Boards
Forum help
Something related with that
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
report