M43

Looking for help with my profile

January 27 2022

Hey all, I'm a 41 year old guy and kind of new to RHP. not getting much interaction with women. I send out messages but I don't hear back. I'm wondering if there's something not right with my profile? Appreciate it if you could have a look and give me some advice. Especially someone from the opposite sex. I'm keen to make my experience on this site work.

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teamaj2
2 years ago
Sunny brown bear - I fear I’m not going to be of much assistance. The question you ask has been asked many times over . I’m certain it’s frustrating for men to join up , put themselves out there and get no responses from the messages you send . There seems nothing wrong with your profile . Your pictures are excellent and your profile says a lot about yourself . The only little alarm bell to me was your desire to meet up weekdays . Some would see that as a red flag for your being married. Some women do not want to connect with married men . Then again , you may work weekends or have commitments to children ? Personally , I feel it is the usual issue - the men on RHP outweigh the number of women here . Women are swamped for choice . Some women receive many messages each day . It takes time and effort to respond to everyone .
As for the messages you send -
Always show respect , show that you have read the profile and that you match what they seek . Lastly ( it’s just my opinion ) never call anyone babe , luv or hun etc , I personally find it very off putting and far from endearing. Wishing you good luck . Ax
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Kokoflamingo
2 years ago
You have an engaging profile. Nice photos, no dick pics, and an articulate write up. Its just that there are a squillion guys to every one woman on here, and a lot of women are getting lots of messages every day. I hope your luck changes, dont give up.
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Freaky_Fun
2 years ago
Considering you've completed everything in your profile but left the relationship status out and the included NSA blurb, l take it you're not single.
Women on here are quite savvy and perceptive.
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RHP User
2 years ago
The pics are good. It's you. The text? It's a little dry at the moment. Expand it! You sound cool. You sound like you're into the tantric sex / spiritual passion - speak more about it. Travel - yeah of course, who doesn't like travel. Spice it up with shit about your life. Be unique, be passionate or be gone.

Also. What kind of lady do you seek? Describe her in your profile. What kind of RHP woman / what kind of date turns you on mentally and physically?

Good luck, and happy dating.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Your profile is better than 99% of the other guys' profiles on here, you've at least put a bit of effort into it and you've got good photos. Like Koko said the disparity in numbers between men and women on here just makes it difficult to cut through all the bullshit messages that women receive. One thing I will say, you haven't specified your relationship status and in my experience guys often do that when they are attached but not wanting to state it explicitly in order to try and sneak around preferences for single men. Other women who have been here awhile may also have realised the same thing and just not bother with profiles that don't state it upfront. Either way It's not going to help you to not have it listed so you're better off just putting it in.
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Rising_Phoenix
2 years ago
I get the sense “unethically non monogamous” should be added...people need to know what they’re walking into so honesty regarding your relationship status is definitely necessary.
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Sawadee
2 years ago
Im a believer that if someone else helps you with your profile, its not really you .. Should a person with a gift for wording help you , its then up to you to live up to it..
Truth is ' its about the real you , and how you present yourself .. not what someone else thinks you should be.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Now that you've listed your relationship status, if you're on here with the knowledge and consent of your wife I would state that in your profile. If you don't say anything people will assume you're cheating. If you are cheating... well yeah you're really pushing shit uphill.
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Freaky_Fun
2 years ago
Bahahaha anyone else get a friend request 🙄
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CasualGuy65
2 years ago
Hey mate, I’m also reasonably new here, mid 50s, married and playing without permission. I’m completely up front about it in my profile, no secrets. Yes that might turn many away but my view is if you’re cheating “honestly” then some might be ok with that?
I’ve met a lovely lady who’s also playing without permission, so they’re definitely out there and will appreciate the honesty. Some will only be looking for attach guys, so the terms are equal for you both.
Yes not many messages get a reply, just got to deal with it and keep trying. One day the stars will align and you’ll get to play. Worked for me.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Hi. Ive learnt that this app is not a magic quick fix straight road. Ive been on here for over a year and had zero response.
Just dont give up. Try not to put to much emphasis on here and more on youre life in the real world. Things will gravitate to you hopefully.
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RHP User
2 years ago
Your profile is good, nice pictures including face and eyes.
That you are married can put off people, maybe explain your situation if you are in open relationship?
Try interact on chat and in forums more, it can give you more attention.
Attend parties of possible and focus on networking rather than sex.
Be patient, good things cum to those who wait...
Good luck
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Ex007
2 years ago
Your profile is fine. You’re open and honest good luck with your search.

I do have some RHP profile top tips from my prospective. If you or anyone else reading this would to read over them, send me a message.
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