M33
How do I make my profile better
October 18 2021
I’m new to online dating please help
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RHP User
2 years ago
A couple of photos would be a start
RHP User
2 years ago
"I love to laugh" is one I've never understood. I mean - who doesn't enjoy laughing? Or when people write "I love good food" or "I love to travel" or "Seeking like-minded people for adventures".
Bricky (said politely) I think your profile sounds friendly, but it's full of the usual cliches that tell us nothing about you as a man. What kind of comedies are you watching on Netflix? What do you do for fun on a weekend (don't just say hang out with mates)? What kind of lady turns you on physically and mentally?
I think a profile should be written so that a lady thinks: "Hey, Bricky sounds interesting and like he'd be fun to meet / grab a wine with, and if we click we could fuck like crazy." Beef it up with some more personal shit, and you'll be on your way.
Your profile is two shop front windows at David Jones made up of 1) your pics and 2) your words. A lady has got to be impressed by one (or both) of those windows to stop and do some RHP shopping.
Best of luck.
teamaj2
2 years ago
Firstly , Brickyman welcome to the Pie . I know it’s difficult but don’t be disheartened. We were all new once. Being here , like anything new is a learning curve . You can tweak your profile as many times as you like . You will make errors of judgement, perhaps say things in messages that people won’t like and meet people along the way and learn from the experience.
My advice is just that , my advice . Everyone will want to see something different on a profile .
To begin ,let’s imagine you walk into a bar . It’s packed , jammed full of people and they are ALL men . In walks a few lovely ladies . The analogy is yourself walking into RHP .
The lovely ladies on here , are spoilt for choice . They may get many messages daily . They all have busy lives outside of RHP . They all will have different wants , needs and what they find attractive will differ . That’s not only aesthetically but intellectually and what they are seeking will differ .
Your most useful tool ( is not the one you think lol ) it’s your profile picture . Make it work for you . I understand some do not want to do a full on face picture for fear of their work mates , cousin , sister seeing it ? Remember , if they see it , they too are here . You can do a picture without revealing your entire face . We all have our likes and dislikes with pictures . I hope this is a good tip -pictures taken in the bathroom or toilet are rarely attractive. We know you own a pair of bonds no need to show them or what is underneath them straight away - wait until asked or you seek permission . Consent is of paramount importance at all times . Maybe a picture of you out and about ? It’s all subjective .
Be a member . This allows you to send messages . Make sure your messages are ALWAYS honest , respectful , they show you have actually read the profile you are responding to , make the message more than 3 or 4 words . Do not be offended by rejection or no reply . It’s just the way it is .
Lastly , be an active participant on the forum. It means you are real , people get to see what makes you tic and gives you exposure .
Good luck . Ax
I apologise for the long winded reply .RHP User
2 years ago
Your profile is a bit boring and standard to read. Try make yourself stand out a bit more with some interesting writing.
Everyone is fun, like to laugh and go out with friends and family. What make you different to everyone else?
Add a picture of yourself too, profiles with no picture is unlikely to get a response.
See your profile as an add, would you ever rent a house you haven't seen a picture of?
Good luck and have fun x
FeistyFatty
2 years ago
A photo helps
MsSuperFoxy
2 years ago
Welcome Brickie.
Nice smiling pictures help. No party ones, dead fish or anything that's a turn off. Keep your dic pictures in your gallery until she asks. Consent is a must.
TIP: Put a lot more effort in your profile. Think like a lady, act like a man. Write your profile from a woman's point of view reading it.
NO effort= No effort into her.
You earn the privillage of her company.
You have thousands of competition here. Use the feedback posters have posted, and use it to your advantage.
Ms Foxy 😎
IceCream_Couple
2 years ago
Good work the brickyman, Just a thought,
An early thirty discrete, polite, friendly single man, Strong and dependable working outdoors the Brickie is the back bone of any building site.
I specialise in building walls, especially straight walls. Working outdoors in the rain hail or shine it’s like a gym keeping me in shape. I get down and dirty when the needs be and scrub up sparkling and shiny when ready to be inspected.
I’m the man that builds walls for squash courts, the type of walls you can get inside run around bouncing balls of every corner of the room with hot sweaty bodies while having fun.
I’m the man that builds walls that holds the roof up and keeps you safe from the harshest beating sun.
I’m the man who can build wall with a fireplace that remits the flickering light from the romantic fire while drinking a glass of wine and being snuggled up on the rug in front.
So send me a message so I can break down your wall one brick at a time over a chat and so I can get to know what’s behind your wall.
Would you ?
Could you ?
Should you ?
I will reply,
The BrickieSawadee
2 years ago
I would suggest you write it yourself ? Its your profile and the content needs to come from within .. Its you who needs to live up to whatever your profile states . Take your time and think of all the positive things you feel are you ?
RHP User
2 years ago
Hey mate. Honestly, I’m new too. This app is awesome. Delve deeply into your sexual thoughts and what you can can give.
Don’t pretend and get out of you comfort zone because these women here know what they want.
Your a young good looking bloke. You should be fine. You just need a decent profile.
Mine is a long read but if an educated person can’t be bothered I’m not either.
Inbox me if you want. I’ll write you one to start 👌
LovelyLana
2 years ago
Your photos aren't the best quality, blurry and filtered.
Also, agree with above comment of such a generic blurb that tells us nothing about you really.
Also the spelling and grammar was a turn off, but that's just me.
Even with above comments you haven't changed your profile?
cat_n_the_hatter
2 years ago
Great advices Teamaj2
I may add, if some women do not reply or they reject your advancement, do not be disheartened. It is not a reflection of you. And it should not stop you in trying to contact women. Although, dependent on what kind of women you wish to contact, I would advise to leave out profanity and make some effort. Do not show photos of your intimate part unless requested. If things here don’t work for some time, leave this place, go out, meet people, enjoy life and then if needed come back but follow same rules. Effort, not only in creation of profiles but also in replies. Also, I think many men have lost the art of courting and many women are overbusy and forget to reply to thoughtful messages. Choose your words wisely as they are the reflection of you. Have few photos which reflect your interest. If you find someone you connect with - cherish them. (Ms)
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