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Do couples need to swap in order to be fun? Can non swapping couples still be part of the fun?

January 22 2025

Are there couples out here who love being watched by other couples, and watching other couples, and have no awkwardness about being on the same bed or in the same room with multiple couples, and for those couples to be swapping or engaging in any combination such as DP, spit roast etc, but have still been not been invited to a party because you did not want to swap?

Love your thoughts, people.

At play party where both the M/ and G are fun, respectful, know how to party and highly sexual, and dressed sexy, not ready or unwilling to swap on the night, should they not be included io the private party?

Can non swapping couples still be a sexy and integral part of the party?

Comments

  • Primal_Curiosity

    Primal_Curiosity

    14 days ago

    They can.

    Abi and I have attended parties and I've just a scene with her and been content with an audience.

    Well, heavily got off on the attention.

    I also enjoy watching a couple play at parties. Seeing the love element is quite a sight.

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    14 days ago

    100% couples not swapping can and still are part of the fun at parties. We've been to parties where we don't swap, but play together. Margo plays with the ladies a bit, and everyone has fun. Margo doesn't play with guys she doesn't have a connection with, so swapping at parties is pretty much never gonna happen... unless there's people she knows there, and wants to play with already.

    I will note, the parties probably should be a bit larger, so there's plenty of people who are swapping. The parties we've been to had 10-14 couples - Alex.

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    14 days ago

    Hallelujah!
    We have been very slow to get out there as MrsS feels like she can’t help but feel pressured to play.
    I think parties where the emphasis is on sexy voyeurism is the way to go. If people want to take it further then so be it but it shouldn’t be the focus.
    We have been to a few such parties and had a great time but they seem too few and far in between.

  • Beachlovers50

    Beachlovers50

    14 days ago

    I agree the best sex we ever had is with each other, we have swapped and enjoyed ourselves but not a much. We have only been slyly watched on the beach and enjoyed it very much, would love to watch and be watched at a private party

  • ComfortZone

    ComfortZone

    14 days ago

    This is not uncommon at all and your desire to simply watch or be watched should not be frowned upon. I know of a couple who host private parties and they are strictly exhibitionists and voyeurs.

  • CandiKane

    CandiKane

    14 days ago

    Absolutely, yes!
    Clubs and the bigger parties are best. When it comes to the smaller private gatherings, many would tend to prefer attendees that are looking to swap but not always. When talking to hosts, just be open and upfront. You are never obligated and no one should ever make you feel like you are.

  • bnkinky69plus1

    bnkinky69plus1

    14 days ago

    Love this! Great question..
    As one of the other comments mentioned; we ‘as an intimate pair bond’ have the best sex together. My lover loves what we have and isn’t interested in other men and the expectation however manifested, can be a huge turn off for both of us. Just being in the same room, fuelled with lust and desire , to be watched is hot all one its own. I guess we all have our own safe space in the journey. It’s nice to know we’re not the only ones who feel this way.. thanks 🙌

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    13 days ago

    Alright I hope some party organisers are reading this post, surely looks like there’s a market for a “Look but don’t touch, touch but don’t fuck” party. I hope to see one in the events soon :)

  • Asian4Glazin

    Asian4Glazin

    11 days ago

    Fully gree with the sentiments of this post and the replies from others. Recently attended a party where one couple were just spectators (coincidentally of South Asian origin and very demure). I was happy to have them as an audience whilst my loving partner was deeply involved in a three way. Definitely room for respectful voyeuristic couples for sure! See you at the next event!