Bisexual men

July 20 2022

Why is it for common for bisexual women than men? Is it women feel more confident being able to express their bisexuality or there are just less bisexual men?

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  • Rising_Phoenix

    Rising_Phoenix

    2 years ago

    In my experience it’s not more common for women to be bisexual at all 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • GimmeFunTime

    GimmeFunTime

    2 years ago

    Social stigma and homophobic attitudes to bi men. It’s a lot more accepted for women to be openly bi than for guys. I’m curious but I found I’m scared to put it on my profile. Oh well, now it’s here 😉

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    As a Bi guy based on the number of messages i have received from guys who list as straight and don't mention men in there profile i would suggest there are a lot more than advertised. The other question is how many women are bi as a lifestyle choice and not pressured into it by there respective partners. Another consideration is there is still a huge social stigma towards male bisexuality not just publicly but within adult websites such as this one, over the years i have experienced most straight couples won't entertain the idea of a bi guy to have a mfm 3 some with.

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    2 years ago

    Always a interesting topic . I did a forum post June 5th 2020 , titled ‘Is MMF deemed unacceptable?’ It raised many questions and people had a lot to say , over 300 responses. I found it made for interesting reading, in relationship to your forum topic .
    It raised the question of why it seemed perfectly acceptable ( even expected at times ) for women to be bisexual in this lifestyle and often frowned upon for men to be .
    From our experiences here and at events , we found alot of men present as straight ( or their profile says they are ) but they are actually bisexual . From interacting with men we have met up with , they say a lot of people if straight, are put off by bisexual M, being in their profile . For us it is a positive . Personally , in this day an age it seems archaic to think that people aren’t open to accepting bi males.
    Surely , it’s best to be transparent to all wants and kinks in the hope of meeting like minded sexy folk .
    Ax

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    We often comment that it is overwhelming Bi women/ straight men on here. When we chat to other couples almost most say the male is bi curious. We’d love to see that on profiles. Don’t hide it fellas!

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    2 years ago

    I can't say I agree. From personal experience, I've encountered more "genuinely" Bi men than women.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Personally as a straight male, who is bi accepting (if thats a thing) if we were to have a mmf and the other dude was bi, it wouldn't make me uneasy or anything.

    Its Personally not for me, but if another dude enjoys watching me, have at it.

    I think its probably easier for women to come out as bi than men to do so... how many straight men watch lesbian porn, but how many straight women watch gay porn?

    Each to their own, but if you're bi, then dont be ashamed or hide it, be the change you want to see.

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    2 years ago

    Margo and I have now had a couple of MMF's... just in the past few months. Even so, my profile still said 'straight' until just now. I've changed it to 'experimental'.

    It is surprising how difficult it is for a male to be interested in or actually bi vs a female. The stigma & homophobia is still very strong for males in this space.

    - Alex.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Being a guy who has played with couples who actually mention they are straight and play bi is more than you expect. And that amount has increased over the years. Men tend to think that they will not be accepted or will be rejected in this world. I've also read how some couples discriminate bi guys and girls too which is disgusting. I enjoy being bi curious and playing with bi couples.
    Happy swinging 😊

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    So many brilliant and insightful answers to this question.

    There are NO fewer Bi men than there are Bi women. There’s just a social stigma thanks to the Patriarchy.

  • gary77up

    gary77up

    2 years ago

    I must admit I prefer mmf to mff most times. I do have my "type" but being open and free with all participants makes for a much more interesting soiree. And it's really hard to do a good dvp if you don't enjoy mm contact!

  • Jimmbobnsa

    Jimmbobnsa

    2 years ago

    Just saying, but im married but do absolutely love having my ass fucked like im being punished. I wouldnt say fully bisexual. That said, if your a decent human being that that likes smashind ass hard, hit me up

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    We think a lot of guys wil say they are experimental instead of saying Bi. When we are looking for people join us we generally won't look at people/couples where they say the guys are straight.

  • Gentlelovers

    Gentlelovers

    2 years ago

    As far as we’re concerned the ass as some of you put it is meant for 1 thing.

  • beachcouple200

    beachcouple200

    2 years ago

    We've always found it hard to find genuine bi guys on here and yes a lot of guys hide the fact on their profiles. This lifestyle to us is about being open and honest and fulfilling our sexual desires. Be nice if everyone was comfortable enough and the stigma around bi males wasn't an issue😘. So hot seeing my hubby being taken by another man🔥😍

  • MEGA_Bangin

    MEGA_Bangin

    2 years ago

    Being an openly bisexual couple we have found RHP caters for bi, straight guys or couples to find us …Bitribe is a dead give away 😂😈🔥.

    At parties not many single guys are allowed so we have to ask non offensive questions to draw out if bi play is ok.

    We are a respectful couple of others bi boundaries and in our experience we always ask a male either single or as a couple what bisexual means for them. Bi is different for every guy we meet, for example not all bi guys like to kiss or open to versatile play top & bottom, however, bi women are more open with all play and love to watch male to male interaction.

    Maybe we are more pansexual but thats a different post conversation.

  • TandA18

    TandA18

    2 years ago

    There is definitely a stigma attached to guy on guy action but perfectly acceptable for girl on girl. I feel your pain mate

  • Kinky_DnA

    Kinky_DnA

    2 months ago

    I feel sorry for the guys that feel they have to hide it to prevent judgement. Often their profiles are overlooked by couples looking for a bi male playmate and their fantasies never get fulfilled. At the end of the day sex is sex is sex no matter where you are sticking it, so this unfortunate situation is actually really unfair to those men.

  • HappyFliers

    HappyFliers

    2 months ago

    Used to be true. It is changed now. I find men exploring and enjoying their bisexual side with a lot more social comfort.

  • Buccaneer102

    Buccaneer102

    2 months ago

    Good question! I can't speak for others but I have played with some couples whose profile said the man was straight, but when we got down to business he was very keen to suck my cock and for me to return the favour.

    Each to their own!