86Jasindy

86Jasindy

M38 F43

'seeking' bit on profile

April 08 2020

Something that I have been curious about for a while...

I read profiles on rhp, many when you look at the age range requested are up to their age and no higher. This morning I looked at one where the couple were 49 and 50 and interested in people up to 44. Really curious why this would be? It seems really common with the members in the over 35 age range.

Stay safe in today's crazy world 💋


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Comments

  • BigRed01280

    BigRed01280

    4 years ago

    i can’t answer for that other profile you saw OP,
    i can answer my profile though
    i’m 43 and my seeking bit is 25-50 and tbh it was just a nice even range for my ocd lol i’ve met 25 yo that were super mature and very immature too and the same with 50 yo. i didn’t want to leave it 18-99 like all the fake profiles. i’d have been happy without a age range too as i usually judge each person on their own merit and age is really only a number.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Maybe having a 'younger' play friend is seen as sexier??? Or young could be the person hopefully is in good shape for their age??

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    Yep, we've noticed the same thing over our time on here. I've always put it down to people looking for something their partner isn't! It's just like the very detailed descriptions that some have on who they're seeking. When you have a strong idea of a fantasy in your mind, it can be hard to wonder off that path until you've been doing this a while. The longer you're involved in this world, the more you realise all sorts of types you never would have imagined being interested in rock your world 🤷‍♂️

    For the record we've always been looking for people plus or minus fifteen years of us. It doesn't mean we're easy, we just find all types attractive. Like everything on here it's just about preferences, even if we don't understand them ourselves!

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    4 years ago

    I didn't want that post to sound judgy at all... I know we all have our own likes, what one person finds crazy sexy can be a turn off for others.

    I think like you spicy that ours is roughly 15 years either side, hard because Mr is a bit younger than myself.

    I guess in the actual world, other things come into attraction before the age. I just find it fascinating whenever I notice it. And yes, attraction is a very individual thing.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    My seeking is 30-40. Now that I've just turned 40 I'll likely change that to 35-45. And simply because that's just my preference. I've never found older people attractive, and conversely, never found alot younger to be appealing either. The whole MILF/Mrs Robinson Fucking someone young enough to be your child is just cringey. I just like meeting people my own age.

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    I have 35 to 50 on my profile because thats my preference. Guys my age and older that Ive met ( apart from one or two ) tend to either be anti social or eager to act out porn scenarios. I like the company and humour Ive found with younger men. Not forgetting the great sex. Its funny that no one bats an eyelid at a guy with a woman 20 years younger. Will I end up a lonely old lady? No, as Ill have my friends and also some very sexy memories :)

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    4 years ago

    Perhaps they are adjusting for the age adjustment... e.g. people who are 50 stating they are 45. It’s all theoretical really, don’t know why people get upset about it. Though if you are going to artificially shave off a few years you better be able to back it up with a great body or vibrant personality. No one likes to meet with... disappointment!

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    I'm attracted to who lm attracted to.. In the real world and much to the disgust of some here , I tend to attract younger to middle age females.. but l would never say no to a older woman if theres attraction happening.. Older women can be just as sexy as the younger one's ...and just as much fun..

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    It's 6 years since he was 44, now 50 and it's been that long since they have updated their profile with ages or pics.



    Besides, no fucker reads what you are seeking anyway. The erect penis simply bashes the keyboard....

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    4 years ago

    🤣🤪🙃

    Erect penis bashing the keyboard? Love it!

    I didn't actually think of that! Yes it may have been the age when they set it up and not edited it.

    I will always read people's profiles, maybe that's just me?

  • Samnite

    Samnite

    4 years ago

    While some people have very reasonable age range expectations there are many who have wooden mirror syndrome. In other words they have unrealistically high standards. Before any of you bleat about how everyone is entitled to their preferences - to some extent they might be. But then these hypocrites whinge and whine about how they can't meet anyone or everyone on this site plays games with them or nobody wants to meet. I say swap your wooden mirror for a proper glass mirror and see your true reflection.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    I wonder if it works like an Apple Pencil on an iPad 🤔

    Old pics and profiles that haven't been updated in ten years is pretty common. We had someone last year send us a pic in front of my favourite old cafe Kappy's in Flinders st that had moved ten years ago, he was adamant it was recent! There's a bloody fifteen story office block on the site now😳You're going to meet face to face, I just don't get it!

    The sooner you except that you're not for everyone the better. Our lives are too busy to waste other people's time!

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    Interesting comment about wooden mirrors. What would you call unrealistically high expectations? I have expectations and wont settle for less. Mine are that someone takes pride in their appearance, has respect for others, humour and a kind heart ( humans AND animals). I dont think we should ever settle for less just for the sake of a shag. But everyone is different.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    Koko
    Well said. Couldn't agree more. I'll keep my "wooden mirror" (according to samnite) because I won't compromise on my standards for anything.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I think your expectations are entirely reasonable.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    We like what we like! Sort of like trying to tell Mrs Kale to eat peas, it's never going to happen and I'd never try to convince her to try them... me on the other hand loves peas🤷‍♂️

    It's all about preferences and they're very personal. I've got a thing for bigger girls and some of our friends are anything but that. I'm not compromising in any way, I just have I wider band of what I like than some. Above all they're awesome people and that makes a huge difference to me. See, that's another preference!

    Telling people that they should try meeting people they have no interest in just makes no sense to me. Just like telling the regulars on here that they should meet more people like I've seen lately 🤷‍♂️ Sorry, rant over...

  • ocean_man

    ocean_man

    4 years ago

    I fall outside most members age range and I have no desire to convince them that they should give me a chance... lol. People like who they like, and that is often informed by the beliefs they have about themselves.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    Sorry, should have added... a lot of us would rather connect with a couple of people we really like rather than dozens that leave us feeling not much.

  • Brodie_jemimah

    Brodie_jemimah

    4 years ago

    Honestly, people just don’t want the feeling of getting older and older.
    They mingle with younger people to try and get that feeling of youthfulness back in their step.

    As for us, we wouldn’t go over 40 probably due to the fact it’s almost twice as old as teagan and that age gap comes with social disconnection a lot of the time.

    Like what does a 20 year old talk to a 45-50 year old about? “How bout that corona virus ayyy”....

    Then again we see a lot of the more “we’ll tracked” couples with 20+ validations smash a bunch of 50 year olds an not even reply to our prods even to tell us no.
    Everyone’s go their own preference, but yeah do agree there’s a lot of people on here who think they a lot better then others see them :(

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    You answered your own question... Believe it or not ' there are 20 year olds who have no problem whatsoever talking to ppl older than themself ? It's being age phobic that holds the rest back...

  • Kokoflamingo

    Kokoflamingo

    4 years ago

    For making me laugh! People over 45 have nothing to talk about.....oh the ignorance of youth ;)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Quoting 'brodznteagan'
    Honestly, people just don’t want the feeling of getting older and older.
    They mingle with younger people to try and get that feeling of youthfulness back in their step.

    As for us, we wouldn’t go over 40 probably due to the fact it’s almost twice as old as teagan and that age gap comes with social disconnection a lot of the time.

    Like what does a 20 year old talk to a 45-50 year old about? “How bout that corona virus ayyy”....

    Then again we see a lot of the more “we’ll tracked” couples with 20+ validations smash a bunch of 50 year olds an not even reply to our prods even to tell us no.
    Everyone’s go their own preference, but yeah do agree there’s a lot of people on here who think they a lot better then others see them :(
    Its not we have nothing to talk about it's that there may not be much common ground with a 20yo and that will vary between peoples.As Clint used to say "Mans gotta know his limitations" ( Insert peoples)One thing about this lurk is there a few hard and fast rules, there are more than a few outliers, and thats half the fun.
    As for brodznteagan' last sentence, I totally agree.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    Brodzteagan..... hahahahaha...... I'd "socially disconnect" too if I was meeting people you you pair...... hilarious ignorance 🤦‍♀️