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Squirting, gushing, female ejaculation, whatever you call it, it’s a RedHot topic that never seems to go out...
Rebecca Daniels | February 19 2013
Squirting – Fact or Fiction?
Squirting, gushing, female ejaculation, whatever you call it, it’s a RedHot topic that never seems to go out of fashion! Here at RedHotPie our sex doctors are constantly inundated with questions about it, not to mention the Hot Forums going crazy with chat about it: women wanting to know what it is and how to do it, men wanting to know how to make women do it, whether or not it’s real, what the mythical g-spot is, whether it’s just urine or not, and on and on! So, we’ve decided to create an article that answers all of your squirting questions, in no particular order. Whether, you’re a believer or not in squirting, you’re sure to have fun (either on your own or with a partner) trying!
Is there a difference between squirting when you orgasm and peeing?
The fluid that is released during squirting is not urine, so yes, there is a big difference. Don’t believe us? A simple taste and smell test will prove it! There has been debate raging on for years about whether squirting is just a woman completely letting go and peeing as a result. Some people will argue till the cows come home that squirting doesn’t exist. Research into female ejaculation is a relatively new field so it’s seen as debatable. We happen to think that the non-believers just haven’t experienced it!
Some very sexy-minded scientists have done research into the phenomena and discovered that the fluid released when a female squirts has a similar chemical composition to male ejaculate, minus sperm of course. The fluid that is released during female ejaculation has been found to come from the Skene’s glands, which are a part of the g-spot. What is this g-spot you’ve been hearing so much about? The g-spot is sometimes known as the female prostate, as it’s in the same position (whilst on a different wall, of course) to the male prostate and is similar in size, shape and function.
Are you able to teach yourself how to squirt?
Yes, although the jury’s still out on whether it’s better to practice on your own first or with a partner. Ladies, we’d suggest practicing on your own at first if you sometimes have difficulty relaxing and feel pressure to squirt. If you have a partner that wants to learn - or already has an idea of how to make women squirt - and that you feel completely comfortable with, even better! That means you can lie back, relax and have them do the hard work for you!
Do all women squirt?
We’re going to open up a potential can of worms with this controversial statement - all women can squirt. In saying that, it may be extremely difficult for some women: weak pelvic floor (PC) muscles and an inability to relax can make it damn near impossible for some women. However, you don’t have to envy those women that can ‘squirt on command,’ there is hope for you yet if this is something that you really want to achieve.
Do your Kegel exercises regularly to strengthen your PC muscles, as these can help you not only learn to squirt, but also to reach orgasm more easily. To identify the muscles that you need to strengthen, practice stopping urinating midstream. The muscles that you clench to stop the flow are your pelvic floor muscles. To do your Kegels, squeeze these muscles tight and clench for five seconds, then relax for five seconds. Aim to repeat this process three times a day, for around thirty repetitions each time and soon you’ll be cracking walnuts with your….Well, maybe not, but it can make a huge difference, trust us.
When it comes to an inability to relax, there is no magic cure. if you visit the bathroom beforehand, you’ll be able to let go of any fears of urinating, making your chances of squirting more likely. Remember that squirting is natural and that most men find it a turn on, knowing that you are getting incredibly turned on! Mentally focus on the sensations, rather than worrying about the mess.
What is the best way to stimulate a woman’s g-spot to make her squirt?
Just as any woman can learn how to squirt, any man can learn how to make a woman squirt, or, as mentioned previously, a woman can take matters into her owns hands and teach herself! It will take a lot of practice and the use of a certain technique, but if you’re patient, it will pay off big time! Begin by learning your way around the female g-spot, as it’s the main player in the squirting game and whilst some women can squirt via other methods of stimulation, the g-spot is key. Feel your way around and get to know this spot well!
If you are working with a partner, begin by getting blood flowing all through your body. Try to relax by getting your partner to give you a sensual all over body massage. If you are working on your own, take a soak in a tub and stroke your body all over. Once you are really relaxed and aroused, it’s time to seek out that elusive g-spot! It is better to try and find the sweet spot when you’re really turned on, as it will be more pronounced.
Lie on your back and spread your legs, firstly making sure that you are well-lubricated (naturally or otherwise). Insert one or two fingers completely inside your vagina and curl them to feel around for a spot on the front wall that has a different texture to the surrounding skin – it might feel spongy, rough and raised. Use a ‘come hither’ motion to stroke and if you’re having trouble finding it, press your other palm flat on the outside of your pubic area.
To stimulate the g-spot, start by pushing against it using either your fingers, or a toy (preferably curved and specifically designed for g-spot stimulation). You can then start to rigorously rub the area. You will probably find that you’ll need to be quite vigorous. Through constant stimulation of the spot, you’ll begin to feel like you need to pee. Just relax and continue; fight through the sensation and you’ll start to feel an intense build up before squirting. Flexing the PC muscles can help push you over the edge. Once you’ve mastered the art of squirting digitally or with toys, you can move on to trying through intercourse. Some positions that encourage squirting are doggy style, woman on top grinding against him, man on top but with her ankles up around her ears or knees to chest.
Should women who are squirters warn new partners ASAP once it looks as though the action is headed that way?
It might not be such a bad idea to give a heads up to any partners when playing if you gush more than Niagra Falls! As a courtesy we’d suggest that you do, as it will at least allow them to lay down some towels, which is especially important if you are playing where you are going to be sleeping. No one likes sleeping in the mother of all wet patches.
So that’s pretty much it. It’s simple in theory, yes, but bear in mind that it can be much more difficult in practice. Persist though and you’ll experience some of the most intense orgasms ever. It is well worth the effort. Therefore, don’t be deterred if it doesn’t happen right away. Don’t look at it as a failed experience and get frustrated, as this will just end up in repeating the pattern as next time you try you’ll be tense and anticipating failure. Look at it as a learning experience. In short, relax, explore and enjoy it for the sensations…even if you don’t squirt. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and if you really want to squirt, you’ve gotta be prepared to put in the hard work. So go forth brave sexplorer and have some wet and wild RedHot times…then be sure to share all the juicy details with us afterwards!
What's your take on squirting, have you been able to make it happen (for yourself or a partner)? Let us know below in the comments!
Comments
RuralBiCple
29 Apr 2020
Being a nerd, I lost my virginity at age 24 ... it was my sixth sexual partner who told me 4 hours of fucking and the bed saturated in squirt was not normally what happened during sex ;)
Friday72
04 Feb 2020
It s not fiction it’s all in the preparation and mindset.
TeamTnS
26 Oct 2019
I reckon I can swallow ~300 ml in a session. It isn't urine, but it does have some of that aspect. The challenge for the gland theory is the volume, speed, and rapid recovery time. There doesn't seem to be anatomy for local storage. My theory is that there is a filtered pathway from the bladder. Research opportunity!
Lolitalover
07 Aug 2019
I had never even heard of this phenomenon until I did it a few weeks ago, thanks to new friend I found on this site!
Hungrycouple8080
30 Jun 2019
Fact. Just before i turned 40!! Always read or heard stories about squirting and always wondered. Well thank f... i got out of my box and got with my soul mate. Never have i experienced the feeling. Letting go, i was floating, just keeps getting better the more we play. We cant stop
MsFlirt
29 Jan 2019
Finally I can add something to a conversation about squirting. I had my first ever experience squirting on the Australia Day long weekend. I was with a new lover, a gentle, intuitive, generous but dominant man. The first I knew it was happening was when there was suddenly what looked like upside down rain gushing into the air above my pussy. The sounds of him finger fucking me changed too, from a juicy squelching sound to just the sloppiest wet sound! Unfortunately I became so overwhelmed that I burst into tears and lost the ability to talk or move briefly. I remember him asking me if I was ok and if I wanted a cuddle. It was all I could to nod my head yes and to accept his affectionate after care. I might never experience squirting again, but I am so happy I know my body is capable of it when with a generous and skilful lover.
steveandhisgirl
16 Dec 2018
squirting mmmm my forte in less than 30 seconds and thats just being touched by my guy......gotta stop him being abe to do this to me lol actually its more drowning him than squirting lol
cpl4cpl_and
23 Sep 2018
love love love squirting
mrseaside
28 Jul 2018
I love a woman squirting!!
Phantom16
23 Jul 2018
A former work colleague squirted on me so much, I felt as if she was washing me with a hose. It was a massive turn on and the rewards were orgasmic. I now search for continuous squirters. 😁
Debflower
23 Jul 2018
SQUIRTING-Female Ejectulation; usually happens when stimulation of the clitoral/g-spot and internally of the vagina simultaneously with hands or vibraters; a clear liquid that, as the name suggests, squirts from the vagina; if the said areas are stimulated correctly, the female can squirt over and over again for long periods I KNOW FOR SURE.... **The clear, odourless liquid that squirts from the vagina is not urine. Urine is yellow. That said, if the female hasn't toileted before being aroused and if she pushes too hard, urine is possibly going to mix with the clear liquids. **The amount of clear liquid that can escape the vagina when squirting is truly amazing. Personally I squirted so much the mattress was ldripping underneath; laying on thick plastic which was turned up at the sides collected litres of my clear liquid. That time yet again we asked Google about squirting and the amount of liquid a woman's body lost. **If you're a squirter 2 beds are required
littlebitofkink
21 Jun 2018
I've gone all my sexual life thinking I couldn't squirt, but I was very wrong. If your partner knows what they're doing, it's the most intense and insane orgasm ever..especially when accompanied by playing with the clitoras. Makes my legs week and my body shake 😘
steveandhisgirl
16 Jun 2018
Believe me its a fact ask my guy less than 5 minutes im gone bad its orgasms galore pity abt the sheets or where ever lol
foxylady06
30 May 2018
I am a squirter and its definately not pee
steveandhisgirl
15 May 2018
squirting work
steveandhisgirl
29 Apr 2018
i can squirt if the guy is worth it lol with my guy i can drown him lol
Hotwife86
28 Apr 2018
I myself, made an appointment with a female Physiotherapist that specializes in that area of incontinence shall we say as I was sure I had pee'd during sex with my husband. As I have had a baby also even though I was active with all forms of exercise during my pregnancy I was sure I had become another statistic of female incontinence basically. Hubby was adamant I hadn't, but I was a non-squirt believer! Funnily enough when I describer the sensation, and had an examination, I was informed, that there was nothing wrong with me, and that I was one of the lucky few that in my 31st year on earth I had finally inherited female ejaculation attributes. Now it's basically a "every time" occurrence, whether its a full squirt, gush, trickle, whatever... the human body is an amazing thing!
FWB_Aus
08 Nov 2017
Squirt or piss. Both fun in the bedroom as long as your both getting off on it
Squirrel
22 Jul 2017
I do find for myself personally, that it is quite mental... there is a point where I almost say to myself.. I'm going to completely give myself over, totally relax and let myself go. If I'm in the zone and completely comfortable I can and will squirt. It's so liberating and partners always look it
robhelle
20 Apr 2017
Anyone know how to stop doing it?
xojane
06 Dec 2016
Wow xx
justdo1t
26 Jul 2016
Yes its true my girl squirts often its not pee ' pee dont look milky its not a Ways milky sometimes clear sometimes she squirts shit loads other times just a little we once had sex on a park bench at st kilda thought there wasa king tide the amount of squirts she had that night wonderful thing
Luvsquirtas
07 Jul 2016
Surely there's. Squirter close to me that is in need of a long wet session.
Luvsquirtas
07 Jul 2016
There's nothing better than making a woman squirt, I simply can't get enough. I'll keep giving them orgasms for as long as they want. I need to find me another squirter.
KinkiFunAus
17 Jun 2016
Don't need to read the article - I know its true. Men - go buy a lelo brand toy angled for gspot access.. in addition ensure the clitoral stimulation 'ears' are present. About $180 or higher, but fantastic quality and you are one step closer. Any experienced lady I'd suggest the Lelo HITACHI clone, warning - serious toy ! lol
threesixty
18 Sep 2015
It is one of the most erotic experiences I have had the pleasure of being part of. Sadly, we are no longer playing. Take your time, get her well and truelly on the boil and hold on for the ride of your life.... The 1st time we splet together, she said that I had a snowballs chance in hell of finding her elusive G-Spot. Inserted the "Bird" finger, traced a straight line from just inside her vagina. Towards her navel, 10 seconds into it, I detected it.... The distinct feel of the soft, but firm flesh with the surface of a "Waltun Shell" She Said WTF.... How did you do that. Practice and she was amazed that it ws quick, but I also knew what to do to achieve a Squirt..... Its not a Pokemon...... Happy Hunting...
TheDoorMan
08 Sep 2015
I like it when I make a women squirt especial when its for the first time and they have never felt the pleasure of squirting they either loose it total or they get reserved and in denial. But I have found lady's with an outty are more likely to squirt and I love it very much when a woman looses control and orgasms like there's no tomorrow and fulls in an absolute hep and when she tires to walk has jelly legs and needs assistance. Sensational I love it!!!
NewVicCpl
11 Aug 2015
Last week my wife and I took the leep and started to play with some other couples at a party and knowing that she loves a squirt, I got her going in front of a few others. Before we knew what was happening, there was a fair crowd of people watching us all get a little wetter than normal and we were loving it. What happened next was a massive surprise, two younger, good looking couples asked if they could join in as they had tried to have their partners squirt before but not had any luck, so the I happily let the blokes have a go at making my wife squirt which she did with gusto whilst I was lucky enought to do my best at making the girls squirt. I'm very pleased to say that not only did I manage to bring both girls to a squirting orgasim, but they absolutely loved it and I managed to tick a few other things off my fucket list at the same time. Thanks to those who joined us that night, we had a blast. xxx
sweet_cherry69
02 Jul 2015
i love it !! looking fwd to some more of it at party on saturday night :)
Vespa59
15 Jun 2015
i am still on the quest for the holy grail ,are there any volunteers out there willing to show me ?
Incubus9999
20 Jan 2015
Finally. A forum that's informative, educational, and accurate. I've had first hand experience. Squirting is real and every woman can squirt and the fluid is definitely not pee :)
ItalianVoice
16 Oct 2014
I've just seen it in movies...till now :D this month I found TWO girls that squirt...IT'S AMAZING The first one surprised me completely...and after I asked to go on, to do it again...and she did it other 4times... was absolutely one of the most exciting night of my life!
lovinlife_45
22 Sep 2014
I love to squirt, so far I have only been with one guy who has been able to get me there, it is an amazing feeling.
N4November
27 Aug 2014
I'm multi-orgasmic and a squirter. The only negative is that being spontaneous can be difficult because I have to hold myself back so as not to make a mess!! Also public sex the same applies! But the curse is a gift and as I love to say "squirter aren't fakers"!
werup4itnow
24 Aug 2014
My partner squirts nearly every time and has multiple orgasims. Its so great and she loves it . And I love it too. It makes for great and messy sex but we like that too. Its extremely sexy. Just relax and go with the flow. Best sex ever!
KISSINGwCOLOGNE
08 Jul 2014
Cant wait to give this a go. Any female volunteers?
Freya23
23 Jun 2014
Can you teach an older girl new tricks Yes you can!!!! I just recently got together with a lovely, caring man who got me squirting like crazy. I thought that only happened in porn. Boy was i wrong. Awesome fun.
WHISLICx2
17 Jun 2014
I have had 6 or 7 ladies that squirt, 4 for the first time and most can`t squirt every time but I believe that is due to not relaxing enough! Due to worrying because there past sexual partners have freaked out over the mess (embarrassment) Me love it get my face right in there mmmm! (make your ladies feel great about them selves as well as the brilliant feeling of the squirting orgasm WOW) IT`s the greatest sensation watching and feeling the enjoyment of the lady! Love it!
TigerJoy
01 Apr 2014
I love squirting, it's so much fun
norty123
24 Mar 2014
Love it to;)
Travelingaround
27 Feb 2014
yes its very true and I love it ask my hubby he loves it
ontheroadagain
18 Feb 2014
WOW
lilmisssquirt
31 Jan 2014
also i want to add that i had never had an orgasm with a partner, until my current partner (mr hotbibriscl)....my guy is very good and just took the time to know my body, first was a little gush and now he can make me cum whenever he wants during any which way or not lol
lilmisssquirt
31 Jan 2014
Yes squirting is real...I've only found out i can squirt in the past 2 yrs. My partner was a big help and now its Niagra Falls lol When we play away from home i do tend to try and hold it as they really dont know how much i can squirt and keep squirting for hours.... We do love the look of surprise and awe as it happens.....and yes they all ask if we could teach them lol
Horny4you
18 Jan 2014
The bosses wife was the 1st for me and i found it amazing mmmmmm yumm
VeryClassy
17 Jan 2014
We can teach you Speedchaser. I squirt all the time and hubby has helped a number of friends achieve their first.
speedchaser
15 Jan 2014
Can some 1 teach me please
PL1963
25 Nov 2013
The PSA in the urine proved that all women are capable of squirting under the right circumstances, relaxation is the key ladies, men learn the technique. Happy squirting Guys. Cheers Paul.
PL1963
25 Nov 2013
My ex of 30yrs only squirted 3 times, each time it was having sex outdoors that turned her on enough to able to squirt. It is definitely not urine, each time she said she was going to pee, but I assured her she wouldn't & that it didn't matter if she did & she was able to squirt. Unfortunately she lost her sex drive, but I did get to taste the sweetest nectar known to man. In a chick profile she put that she was a "squirter" because she had 3 guys run out because they thought she had pissed on them. More knowledge on both sides of the street is what is required, I would only recommend that ladies use towels and try it with a lover that they are very relaxed with and don't give up, the end result will be worth it. Guys, you will end up with a face like a "glazed donut", but to see your partner have the ultimate orgasm is something every man should experience. I read a forum recently were all women that orgasm'd showed levels of PSA in their urine, however some were to low to squirt.
Nudegetaways
20 Nov 2013
Mrs Ranch Loves to squirt but not with just anyone
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