why its so hard to find a woman who loves Receiving oral sex and good body slide massage ??!

October 10 2016

I love giving oral sex and massages but its so hard when its come to real to find some one really enjoyed her self .

- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

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  • tall60

    tall60

    7 years ago

    No job to big or too small

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    None of the friends on your friends list are into it?

    I enjoy both immensely.....but only if my partner is hitting the right spots 😉 I've had some epic oral and some that nearly sent me to sleep.

    It's pretty simple at the end of the day - find someone who says they like receiving oral and massages, and be eager and willing to read her reactions and take direction. What works for one doesn't work for another. Read her body language and that should give you an idea of whether you're hitting the right spots or not.

    If you need some tips - The porn star Nina Hartley has an instruction video.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Maybe you're not looking in the right places.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    that you are stating that you love giving oral sex , and massages, and you are looking for women who enjoy receiving oral sex and "body slide massages" ? And that its hard to find such woman?

    Or are you merely advertising that you give good oral and good body slide massages?

    Every woman that we know, enjoys good oral sex and a good massage and so we don't know why you are struggling to find women who enjoy these?

    Have never heard of a body slide massage , but suspect it's like those "soapy massages" on offer in Thailand?

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 years ago

    Oral lasts for 5mins, and massages do not last the hole week. 😉 😜 Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If i was approached by a first message offering that I would run away. Not sure if that's how you are approaching- just saying.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You must be such a Dil. Perhaps a different approach.... Lol

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    .

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    If women are saying they don't enjoy receiving oral and massages before or after you've given them one.



    If it's before, maybe you should look at your approach when offering them and if it's after maybe you need to ask for feedback in case you're going too hard or not hard enough.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    But are you always looking for a happy ending after the massage??



    I love oral.

    I love massages.

    But it shits me to tears when a massage can't just be about a massage. Happy endings are fabulous, but so is spending the time giving (or receiving) a massage with absolutely no expectation that it HAS to lead to sex.....and having the self control to not turn a sensual massage into a paw and grope session.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    7 years ago

    But... but... but..... your profile photos are bathroom selfies and dick photos....
    .... your written section is creative,.... free flowing without being limited by the conventional punctuations, spelling or grammar....
    .... you include the generic disclaimer to institutions...
    ... and as a guest member with 18 *friends*, youre obviously sending out a lot of friend requests to people you've never messaged ....


    I really can't see the problem..... you should be drowning in vagina.







    *not real friends

  • Katkat

    Katkat

    7 years ago

    Even if it takes time every woman is different with what they want I have friends that only likes for 5-10mins whereas for me like 30-40min till I reach my climax or squirt lol depends how good he is at eating u know.

    It's good if you find someone that you guys are on the same page. And yes totally agree with Ms Jonesy sometimes it's good just to tease out each other & not expect any sex.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    how much :).

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    7 years ago

    I pop back for 5 seconds and find you all still being quick to pick.



    Hi OP I'm guessing English might be a second language OR you just didn't think you'd be judged on your grammar as well as the content of your topic. I'm a woman you've described above but really man or woman who doesn't enjoy oral and massage?



    As for your profile I haven't looked but feedback is always constructive even when it's delivered by forked tongues. I'm not a fan of dick pics but others are, I can only suggest be artistic and think about your backgrounds when posing for a selfie and pay attention to how you are marketing yourself. People have to want to know you even if it's just for a fuck.



    Ciao Indy On Safari

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Your question resonates with me. Til I joined RHP, I wasnt a fan of receiving oral. And Im still not a fan of receiving massages although I love giving them to guys and also giving a "happy ending". I realised I had been with the wrong guy. So some ladies actually dont like oral sex, there it is. I just hope you find one that loves it and gives you the pleasure of giving her pleasure.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'MsJonesy'
    But are you always looking for a happy ending after the massage??





    I love oral.


    I love massages.


    But it shits me to tears when a massage can't just be about a massage. Happy endings are fabulous, but so is spending the time giving (or receiving) a massage with absolutely no expectation that it HAS to lead to sex.....and having the self control to not turn a sensual massage into a paw and grope session.
    appreciate how you feel about this but just wanted to point out that there are differing opinions on this, mine is quite different, I would be wanting and expecting it to lead to sex, usually that would be understood by both anyway beforehand, but giving or receiving, I would be really annoyed if it never lead to sex. I'd be too horny, couldn't be that intimate without getting off. So different expectations there for different people, highlighting how important communication is in the lead up I guess

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    also don't share PoisonIV's response, I wouldn't run away, It turns me on, nothing more intimate and horny than an oily slow erotic massage omg that's the porn I was watching last night, love it, such a turn on when the chicks legs are slightly apart and he's rubbing all around and over, love that view. I fantasise and want this kind of thing to happen, and it will, if I just had more bloody space

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I like massages and oral ;)



    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting Mischeviouslad "Huh????
    But... but... but..... your profile photos are bathroom selfies and dick photos...."




    You went looking???? Any wonder I call you a big poof :p

    Lol


    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    when I first joined the site, I had a guy approach me how I imagine you might approach women op, by talking about massage in that first message, but at the time, I was suspicious, because he said he did it without expectation, just wanted to practice his skill. I couldn't understand that or didn't believe it, I thought he was running a business because some of them do. I think he was genuine though, I was a lot greener though, a rookie to a degree, would probably have accepted his offer if it was now and not then, so people do need time to evolve and be ready for whatever is playing out, what doesn't appeal one month, can be what you're chasing the following month. So maybe op, you've just encountered the wrong people for you, or those that aren't in that place at this stage, timing king of thing? just a thought

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    a dil is a pickle eh??well.. I guess the girls are SILL singing ..I-I-I-I-I don't want a pickle...Just wanta ride on my motor sickle (Not cycle)and I don't want a tickle...'cause I'd rather ride on my motor-sickle..And I-I-I-I don't wanta die..I just wanna ride on my motor-cy... ... cle
    Just saying... I do like Arlo music...

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    posting order, for some, very interesting, I have noticed and I don't mean following me

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I think you'll encounter a lot of women who can't relax sexually, nuff said

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I read this post as two things:
    a) "Why am I having no luck in touching women (giving women oral sex and massages)?"

    Answer: Because you're a guest member and the profile needs work.
    b) "Hmmmm... maybe if I use some reverse psychology and post in wonderment that women do not like receiving oral sex and massages magically somebody will email me exclaiming 'I love / want you to give me oral sex and a massage?'"
    Answer: Hmmmmm.
    It's pretty safe to say that women like nice food. Massages. Oral sex. Sydney Harbour days on a boat. Puppies and kittens. Time off work. Sunny days.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Is to venture into the chat rooms and engage others in conversation. Let the members here get to know you better, and go with the flow.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Goodtimescruddy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    me! Me! fantasy would be to book in for an oil massage, hot hands all over me with a very happy delicious ending on the massage table.. I walk out.. any takers?