please help understanding my fantasy

September 12 2018

Hey guys, sorry if this is the wrong place to write this, but I want advice. I would say I am for the most part a straight male, however for quite a while now I have had a fantasy that I want to turn into reality of submitting to older dominant men, being taken away and turned into a slave, totally objectified, used, appearances changed force fem etc in a group or one on one... I know im not attracted to men as its nothing to do with their looks or personality etc, its just about the situation (not that it matters im not fussed wither way but its how i feel).Does anyone else feel the same? could anyone help explain why this is? or have any suggestions for me?

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  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Fantasies that I like to play around with in my mind. For me the taboo nature and thought are what turn me on. Some I love to do, others when I sit and analyze them I often don't actually want them to come to fruition. I still enjoy myself with the thoughts though.
    Perhaps yours is similar? Or perhaps you are just more open to sexual experimentation than you previously thought.

    Mrs A x

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    6 years ago

    I don’t find a sexual attraction to men or the male form either. I don’t call myself bisexual for this reason, but I find it extremely hot having and dominating another man both sexually and physically. It’s not the physical person that turns me on but the act, the fact that it’s taboo, wrong, naughty and that’s the big turn on for me. Playing with another male with my girl is double the pleasure. A man with your fantasies would be the type we’d love to meet. It seems you’re thinking about things way out of your norm and that’s a turn on for you. I say providing you don’t feel repulsed or guilty for having these fantasies then there’s no problem, so why not be open about indulging.



    Wishing you were closer

    KC72

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Male half of the couple here.

    To answer your questions;

    -Yes, there are many people out there who feel the same way. Only they are at different ends of spectrum; some are like yourself, others on the opposite end -I am one-

    -You being straight has very little to do with your desires to experience such power play. I was enjoying submissive men when I had no interest in men, their interest in me and submitting to my will made me desire them, no necessarily sexually but it leads to that too, at times.

    My suggestion is; explore the world of BDSM. Start from literature and walk into fetish clubs if you want to realize your fantasies and make your desires manifest.

    Be careful though, not everyone is what they claim to be in that world.

    Mutual consent between adults in everything and safe environment are of paramount importance, do not compromise these under any circumstances.

    I used to have a full time Slave when I was single, life commitments got too much and I had to let her go, as well as the male subs I used to see from time to time.
    It’s a fascinating lifestyle and experience, it’s certainly not for everyone, you have to decide for yourself how far you are prepared to go to find what you seek.

    - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    6 years ago

    Would be a great place to explore this further. Then see if you want to fulfill it

    - Posted from rhpmobile