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Why do people ask you to contact them and not reply?
July 19 2019
As paid members we only get 5 messages a day and it’s so annoying when someone asks us to contact them and you know they have seen your message but they don’t reply, why do they ask in the first place?
Is It just us? Or do other paid members cop the same crap?
- Posted from rhpmobile
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Haleakala
5 years ago
Not just you but I assume that they don't like what I wrote or don't like what's in the PG.
RHP User
5 years ago
RHP has lot of “Window Shoppers”, people who are more interested in looking than putting themselves under spotlight.
Lot of newbies are like that, then there certain people who follow their mood changes and send our messages/flirts when they are horny.
Then they stop being horny after doing whatever it is they have been doing and stay away from RHP until they are horny again.
Not everyone here has the guts to follow their instincts.
teamaj2
5 years ago
AsTemp said , yes it happens . I would assume people have a change of heart . Whether it’s because the PG wasn’t what they were after or something in the communication didn’t sit right with them . Of course a thank you but no thanks would be appropriate. Silence says the same thing .
Patience and perseverance pays off on RHP .
GoodluckRHP User
5 years ago
...quite a few times over the last several years and it does happen to everybody. I blame the "single" women that then remember that they really are married and/or hubby accidentally finds out. Bummer, huh?
The other is when folks jump on a post trying to score hits and it sort of derails what you were trying to accomplish. Hey with a bod like that, you should be nailing 'em left right and center!
That said, maybe it's that part where you are hanging upside down on that pole? That's scare me and more so if you were all oily or something from too much foreplay. There ya go...it must be too much foreplay that lands you on your head!
Best of luck and keep on dancin'! ʗɱRHP User
5 years ago
^^Creepy^^I agree with temp, or just fake profiles, plenty of them
Lovinit28andKC72
5 years ago
We’ve had no reply’s at times after explaining how we like to play referring to BDSM, as well as giving access to our PG so they can visually see. Obviously we weren’t for them after all lol.
KC72
Samnite
5 years ago
I find it inexcusable to not reply to any messages at all even if it's a simple sorry, not interested. Especially so if someone has asked for a message from you.
Having said that I can totally understand why some females or couples may not reply to the multitude of messages they get.
All I can suggest is that if they don't reply it means that they are either not interested; or they are not the type of people you would want to know; or they might even get so many messages that they do not have time to respond; or they are simply playing an ego-boosting game with the messages they receive.RHP User
5 years ago
Who would say no to you, you gorgeous pair 😜
SpicyKale
5 years ago
We get it frequently, always couples rather than singles.
We've put it down to a combination of new couples firing off flirts as soon as they join, then have second thoughts on the whole game... fake profiles trying to get their jollies off and people sending flirts when they're drunk or horny, then having regrets!
We had one couple last week, send a flirt when they were passing through town, add us to their favourites list and then block us before we could reply. God knows what the thought process was with that one.
We were chatting with a couple the other day and we all came to the conclusion that there's also a lot on here that only play on birthdays and NYE! The number of messages we received from people we'd sent messages to months earlier around NYE would seem to back this up.
Maybe people are scared of messages that are more than "hey, what's up!"
You'll pull your hair out trying to second guess people on here😐pouncepussycat
5 years ago
The environment is full of dis-courteous people who are there to serve themselves. Without manners, compassion and regard for others. When I’m contacted I reply regardless... despite what my profile says, it is a nice feeling that someone wants to get to know you better, one who is respectful and honest.
I have a rather good radar filter....if this is reaching high levels, I know the person is simply a user without respect for the human on the other side, I respectfully decline. If some one is outright anal, he is blocked!
if I’m inundated with messages, even if I’m late in replying (or OS without internet) it is my policy to let the other know that I haven’t forgotten and will reply when time is on my side, that’s a given. I wanted to be treated like that, why then should we be dismissive, leaving people on a string. I dislike that!
My heart goes out to the men whom I’m friendly with on RHP, who get NO RESPONSE... these are successful, balanced, respectful individuals with intelligence, humour, who look after themselves and looking to connect on all levels. If I hadn’t joined, I wouldn’t be introduced this calibre of gent. Admittedly I am selective, but there is no room for rudeness or far more, wasting another’s time. Don’t do it - let’s raise the standard on RHP.
Goo luck with your fun adventures!
Pounce😻
DinnerDateFirst
5 years ago
My educated guess is it’s because they don’t like what it is that they read.
It happens both ways.
An exchange. Sometimes it builds momentum. Then sometimes it upruptly stops.
It’s very simply really.
No response is a BIG no.
It wasn’t meant to be.
Just move on.
Plenty of fish is this sea.RHP User
5 years ago
I often wonder if I should reply with a no thank you. I hope once they send me a message, they forget about me unless I reply, with interest. If I don’t reply I haven’t hurt their ego because they can assume I was a fake, or that I met someone. The couple of no thank yous I have received make me wonder what they didn’t like about me, but if I don’t receive a response, then I can tell myself little white lies to protect myself, my submissive nature is so strong I want to please everyone, but it’s not always possible with poor communication and misunderstandings.
LetsFrolic
5 years ago
Honestly I feel it's an ego thing or just a fake profile that couldn't find a way to manipulate or they found someone else
It is very rude of people not to reply.. It's basic courtesy after all. I understand some single women get bombarded with flirts and messages though it if they've seen your profile after you've contacted then a short reply isn't hard to follow with.
Basically it's a reflection of them. Don't take it personally. If they're like that then their loss. Some have just been shopping around and will get back to you after playing with the 10 other priorities that's why they respond later. As I said it's a reflection of them. Doesn't mean they're bad people, they could just be really bad at finding the right partner also.
The games people play are really old and wearing on society and most people are over it in real life and social media.. unfortunately it will take a few years for the majority of people to click to it and change and cross your fingers that some self conscious person doesn't start some other game to manipulate and label it as protecting themselves.
ozmelbcpl4cpl2
2 years ago
We find it's 90 percent females who are most likely not to reply even if it's a sorry not interested.i am not sure why they seem to feel they need to be respected more so than any other person on here..self entitlement or self worth or above everyone else is a shallow approach to life..
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