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Using men for sex.
November 19 2013
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Beachlover1999
10 years ago
Waits patiently.........
madotara69
10 years ago
Whether you care if we men orgasm or not.Mado
Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Desirable women have options...... so when a woman could be with any one of a number of guys........... I consider that I am receiving the call for a reason.DG
Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
.... the call is usually to hang out, have a meal, watch a film, go to a street festival....... and then shag like Bengal tigers.After all...... women love to do slutty things, but dont want to be considered a slut.DG
Beachlover1999
10 years ago
That last post just about sums it up!!!!! :)))
RHP User
10 years ago
No it is not important .. it is a compliment for the reasons alluded to by DG above. To my mind it also reaffirms with behaviour that she is only after sex and thus provides confidence that there won't be any complications.
RHP User
10 years ago
Au contraire DG, she doesn't care how she appears to an FB who will be nothing more. You are not talking about the same thing. What if she never wanted to spend time with you outside the bedroom? Just a wam bam thank you sir, I will see you next time?
RHP User
10 years ago
Wham bam, thank you sir, I will see you next time.... Maybe.
RHP User
10 years ago
So a woman who uses a man for sex is slutty?
On_Safari
10 years ago
Could always count on him to be on my doorstep with 20minutes with a hardon for two. Shad each other senseless then not give him a moments thought once the door was closed. We didn't do outings, drinks, coffee. He came in handy, and that's all he had to do; he was just a fuck end of story.
RHP User
10 years ago
Sure, I can handle that but as an ongoing, just meet up in a bedroom, situation, no thank you.
RHP User
10 years ago
If so.....Use n abuse, but don't expect me to talk.....xknots
RHP User
10 years ago
I'd be surprised if many of the men on here said they hated this. I've had a few fuck buddies and it was always just sex. In some cases, I've asked them if they would mind not talking and just concentrate on the sex. Other than the initial drink to see if there's any attraction, I prefer not to do anything of a social nature. It's time-consuming and I don't have a lot of time, so prefer to get straight down to business. Lisa
Missb4u
10 years ago
Seems I am meeting the wrong men. All of the ones I have met have only wanted sex. I don't mind a good fb but something more would sure be nice. Is it my profile ⁉️I may have to rethink my approach😏 MissB
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'LisaisLooking'I don't have a lot of time, so prefer to get straight down to business. Lisa If I was only in Melbourne lol....the clock would most certainly be ticking....xknots
RHP User
10 years ago
In your profile you imply you are happy with a fuck buddy, no dinner, no socializing, therefore that's all you will get offered in my opinion anyway. :)
RHP User
10 years ago
there is no sex, simple
Missb4u
10 years ago
Guess I will take a look at it and adjust it. It does say that I am looking for more than that though. Obviously not clearly enough...lol...- Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
10 years ago
No thanks, I'll pass. CheersJAB
smo669
10 years ago
Use me up, late night booty call, pure lust for sex, don't need to get to know me, all physical yes yes yes......all good. From a man thinking with his fundamental organ ;-))
RHP User
10 years ago
it all depends on the lady in question...Being a bit of a cheeky bastard...and knowing that she was only using me as her pussy plaything... before sending me packing (with a smile on my face, I might add)...I'd sure as hell tease and tease her...and tease her some more...'cos then I know she'll call me back next time...Just sayin'...S'nP
RHP User
10 years ago
After being humped a few times they do get to know you and regardless of the nature of the booty call, the one you knock back is he one you never get
RHP User
10 years ago
Thought It was the ultimate compliment when I was young. But these days the novelty wears thin. A connection and someone to reflect with is just as important as the GREAT BIG FUCK.But regular intimacy (even just sex) would inevitably draw us closer. Unless the woman is a robot. I don't take to robots all that well, so I'm not sure how regular it would be with on of them. How do you kill a Terminator again?
RHP User
10 years ago
I can't think of anything better than be used for sex, even better if that's made clear from the start. Being used for sex then becomes unimportant & making an effort isn't necessary either because everyone knows where they're at & what to expect. In my case, I only want to be used for sex - nothing more & I'd thank anyone for the privilege. There's something sexy about not getting emotionally close to a sex partner or getting to know them very well, it keeps the sex honest & uninhibited. I think it depends where your head is at the time & over time also - we all change how we feel from time to time & if it really becomes a problem (for him), he can always say no to that late night booty call. Bondi.
erotictouch4u
10 years ago
As you can easily read in my profile, I'm not the "fuck & run" type. To me it has always been as much about getting to be comfortable with and captivated by the person as well as the physical exterior. Always will be. I much prefer to be a FWB rather than just a FB. ET xox
RHP User
10 years ago
NEVAH,just use a man for sex....he has to do the dishes too
RHP User
10 years ago
A harsh woman Freya. Hp xo 💌 Because I'm worth it...
RHP User
10 years ago
What are friends for...? Couldn't really do the ONS just because she wanted a shag (though sometimes... late at night. . . in the cold and all alone).Would have to think hard for the FB side of things... which is kind of like a woman using a man JUST for sex.Would have no problems if a friend wanted to use me just for sex... i.e. FWB but not the fully committed relationship.(ARGH... again with the f'ing tags!)Probably doesn't answer the question very well...SG
RHP User
10 years ago
...and I have no issue with it. Sometimes sex is just sex, I think that it is fantastic if a woman just wants to have sex, she can and not need to be tied up in relationship crap. Yes, sometimes it should be love but really most of the time, sex should be less complicated and just fun.
RHP User
10 years ago
Girls meets boy n thinks wtf I'm horny and his breathing... Not really an issue for me so long as there is an attraction of sorts... Never call her a slut she wld be more of a good sport :)
RHP User
10 years ago
And damnit I've got feelings :p It would be easy to say "the one you knock back is the one you can't brag to your mates about" BUT...... I have knocked it back before and will do it again unless there is something in it for both of us. - Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
10 years ago
I have so many women who use me for just that.. Some is just sex, some get what the want physically and emotionally if only for a couple of hours.... I posted about this a very long time ago... Because I had too many of these women it started to become boring and felt as if they all rolled into one... I got to the point I started to say no or completely end it apart from a couple of women that really excited me still - Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
10 years ago
You can use me just for Sex . And I will treat you accordingly . You will be just 3 holes , for my entertainment . Don't expect Respect . I can't Respect someone I don't know . Don't expect amazing Sex . Your gratification is not that important to me . You can only get that from something more Intimate . If you want more from me , you have to give more of yourself... GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
10 years ago
saw a woman's profile that was specific to only wanting booty calls at short notice, to come over, or meet in a car park, fuck your face and squirt all over your chin, neck & chest, followed by a quick exit. It had a certain appeal LOL
inspirit
10 years ago
..did I mention I scored a Ninja whilst residing in up North.
Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Just to clarify...... there ARE times when I have not appreciated 'the. Call'...., the 2:30am drunken "I can get a taxi from town because I want to snuggle" call. I don't care how sexy you are..... Not cool- Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
10 years ago
I do it, so I don't have a problem if women do it to me. It kinda hypocritical if we as men do this and consider a woman "slutty" for doing the same thing.
RHP User
10 years ago
You're giving the game away! 😎
Plain
10 years ago
An honest answer from blokes my age would be that cant be happening can it? And then the light bulb would come on if they were a batchelor the answer should be NO bring it on. I do have a female friend who is a cougar( horrible term) and she has a stable of willing younger guys that she calls in at odd times to satisfy her needs.
RHP User
10 years ago
As my recent post that is why women don't have much casual sex... Becomes the men don't make much effort and are mainly interested in their own pleasure only. Wouldn't it be a lot more fun if you viewed it as just a bit of mutual fun?
RHP User
10 years ago
My comments were simply my opinion on something that seems to lack Soul . Many Women don't want to be treated like that & it's the same for many Men . Sure , I've had plenty of absolutely meaningless Sex & yes , it was fun. But I think now that I'm older , that I can't live with the old mindset . It's why I prefer FWB to FuckBuddy . Your OP scenario lacked the Soul that I , personally , require . That being said , I'm still not adverse to the occasional one-night-stand , with a Woman I find irresistible ;) GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile
RHP User
10 years ago
I agree. Although I have had Fuck buddies who I was friends with so not completely soulless, but at the end of the day there isn't any socializing outside of the bedroom, apart from some chat and the exchange of the occasional message. It is just purely sex really.
RHP User
10 years ago
A friend of friend who I always seen at social get together split with her husband. A smart attractive woman who never hid her intentions pulled me aside explaining she wanted to know me better but because of her situation with her ex and her 3 children it had to be uncomplicated.. For me it could not be better.. Anyway, about 3 months went by before she called me and we had a few drinks and some fun later that afternoon.. Even though it was very business like, it was sensual and satisfying and suited us both because we both had times in the early afternoon where it worked.. She mentioned a few times now ' how horny and naughty she becomes waiting for me to come and must admit the anticipation for me the same.. Its nice and it works..
RHP User
10 years ago
My very first fuck buddy was when I was 25. I had his number but he never had mine so he never knew when I would call. I would come around, have a bonk a bit of a chat then I would leave. I even asked him once... "You don't mind that I am just using you for sex do you?". He said no way! But I could tell after about 6 mths it started to bug him. I was a little ashamed of myself afterwards, but I didn't mean any harm. He was a spunk! :P
RHP User
10 years ago
Well said lisa cudnt have put it better myself!!!
captainkaos
10 years ago
It's a compliment. I don't mind that all. I do however mind when people don't want to get to know you. They want to shag as soon as one walks in the door, even if it is the first time. I am no prude but a few niceties would be good. lol. I guess that I feel more used when that happens and that is why I feel that way. Never thought of it before. Thanks Meeka for the psychology(?) lesson. lol.
RHP User
10 years ago
I find it odd that guys see it as OK when they treat women like that but when a woman does that then she gets called all sorts of names.As for me, I'm just here for sex, I really don't have time to chit chat about your life story nor do I want to share mine, no disrespect meant. I do get the odd guy here and there that contacts me and hints to wanting more....but often I realise that some guys just say they want more because they think that's what women want to hearwoman fucks man;subject verb object
RHP User
10 years ago
I don't want to be your boyfriend. I don't want to be a mindless meat puppet for you to grind against when your hormones rage. I want to be someone you know. Sex is, for me, a form of expression of how I feel about you, about me and about the world. Some people use a brush. Some use a guitar. I use my body and my mind. I cannot do this if I do not know you at least a little bit. I can't push your puttons and pull your levers if I don't know what and where they are, and, for the most part, they're all inside your gooey gooey brains. The only time I want a wham bam thank you fuck off please is when I feel powerless and alone.One night stands don't happen for me when I feel good about myself, unless I have spent hours seducing you. Not that I am tooting my own horn, I just don't like being kicked out of bed when you've had your fill. I wanna cuddle and snooze, then sleepily round two you from behind.RA
RHP User
10 years ago
Do what you like. Sleep with who ever you like. Just be safe and respectful to everyone!
RHP User
10 years ago
I just want a fuk buddy or fuck buddy couple grrr
RHP User
10 years ago
I admit... I've fucked and never contacted the guy again. Others I enjoy being with and meeting regularly but don't really get to know them. I recall one of my first meets on here I met a guy who thought he'd be waiting in the spa when I got there. He spoke crap and was just passable to waste an hour or so. I was not that in to it but thought I needed sex so a 'fuck and run' option was on. When he finally got out of the bath he had the biggest and thickest cock I had ever seen. I think he thought this was his trump card. We discussed condoms and he said he would not use one and he would not negotiate. Neither would I. So I picked up my bag and said I was leaving. He tried to make a bit of small talk and then said we could get a current test for STI's and then fuck without a condom. I said...'no thanks, I need a fuck now.... I'm just going back on RHP and getting another fuck tonight". As he showed me out he said "well that seduction scene didn't work"! Lucky for us females we have options. I imagine it's a lot harder on here for guys. Sorry for using you guys! lol xx
RHP User
10 years ago
Using a man for sex right now!!!
RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ivannahumpalot' Using a man for sex right now!!! pick me pick me lol
RHP User
10 years ago
Honestly the whole reason to have GREAT SEX! is to be able to message them the next day when ur still feeling it and hes at work and tired beyond belief but even just talking about it makes her/him wet/hard if she cant talk to me and make a conection then why doesnt she just go down to a glory hole LOL after all if its not good enough to make into an awsome memmory whats the damn point lol
RHP User
10 years ago
So very very true lol :)
RHP User
10 years ago
After I read this, I actually felt guilty (for a tinee-weeny second) and asked my FB if it bothered him that I just use his cock - no talk, no niceties, just get on my knees, please myself and get out of there . Apparently, he wasn't complaining.
RHP User
10 years ago
I dont mind what time will you b here?
- Posted from rhpmobile
HungHedonism
8 years ago
How liberating to hear empowered women can take what they need, when they need it.
Anyone who views women as anything but amazing (for using someone physically), is probably just resentful they're not being used.
If every man concentrated on giving the woman more pleasure, listening to her body, and being open to experimenting (or just go down on her for 1-2 hours consistently).....then we'd ALL be getting used for sex a lot more 😉 haha
I'm not here to tell everyone the many times I have/still get used.....all I'll say is women deserve to be pleasured endlessly; and if you find the right guy for pure pleasure, you won't stop smiling 😘
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
When we were younger. Neither of us enjoys the idea of sex for the sake of it anymore. We both feel that it can be degrading - and we've both already been there.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Having said that...due to my situation, I have plenty of time to get to know a person and see if they're worth scratching an itch with...dust away a few cobwebs
At least then they're not total strangers?!! 😊
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
I think fair is fair for both sexes however , always beupfront and honest about it we are adults so why lie.
RHP User
7 years ago
I think I'd actually feel pretty chuffed if a girl just wanted to use me for sex. I'd probably have the same reaction as the guy at the end of the first American pie movie. *checks mailbox messages*
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Most guys would not pass up the opportunity to get pussy! Only if they can smell strings they would probably not. But there are men out there that want more than just sex, which both are nice, depending.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I don't mind being used for sex in the least, as long as everyone knows up front what the deal is.
What I do mind is when sex is used to use me, this pisses me off on two fronts, the obvious being it's dishonest, but most of all because it teaches men that women are for sale which sows the seeds of disrespect and male entitlement. (I paid for dinner, you owe me a fuck)
I know, I know, if men didn't think with their dicks it wouldn't work, that's an excuse not a reason. Just because you can take advantage doesn't mean you should, it's disrespectful to men and teaches them very bad attitudes towards women.sorry for the rant
Machariel
7 years ago
Is it a bad thing to use men. I think not..
What I think is wrong is leading men on.
I find my self from time to time being used. That doesn't bother me. As long as they understand that they are going to be in the same boat as I. I am upfront about who I am. I expect the ppl I meet to be the same.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I wish a woman would use me for a sex slave, at my age those woman are very few :-( .
If you read my profile it's in there: "I like to get down and get on with the activity ;-)"
YoungLad97
7 years ago
So I met a girl when I was 18 who hade me believe she was I love with me and being young and dumb I believed her. She would come over nearly every night for sex, always telling me she loved me and such things. However any time I asked to take it further or to make a relationship about it she would always have a reason on why we couldn't. It wasn't till her friend told me drunkenly that she was using me as the sex was good that I figured it out.
It hurt, however if I knew it was just sex no other feelings then yea I wouldn't mind.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Well, don't know why I'm even commenting!
Never been used and in fact I'm sure I'm often accused of being the perpetrator!
Damn!
Wanted! My first experience of beingbused byba woman!!!!!Message me for further discussion!RHP User
7 years ago
Meeka for me if they want me for sex and nothing else I don't have to know want to know their life just their body lol
RHP User
7 years ago
I dream of women using me for sex. It would not bother me that you did not get to know me, if you just wanted sex, there is no way I would say no.
There is an old saying "The one you knock back is the one you never get." Sex is rare enough for me that there is no way I would ever turn anyone down. (Hint, hint)RHP User
7 years ago
Roots a root
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I'll be honest and truthful
It wouldn't bother me. Never hasRHP User
7 years ago
But, sex is more than just sex....its company, conversation before and after, touch, connection, fun, satisfying, etc.
Yup, sounds great =D
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
While I am single I am up for being used just for sex, but remember it's a 2 way Street
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Ha ha since becoming single after a long relationship...I hooked up with someone I met online then strangely enough the very next night I met someone else. It was then I decided to take a sex gap year and experiment every angle ha ha so god no I don't mind if your not the one pulling it out ....I am😜😜
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
To my mind, the reason it's considered horrible when a man "uses" a woman for sex, is because it's generally accepted that "using" someone means "giving them false impressions, but really using them for a more selfish end". And by that definition, I agree that using women for sex is a rather foul practice. So, by natural extension, using men for sex is equally foul.
Now, with that said, if there's an open agreement that both parties are simply engaging the other for simple pleasure, then I can see how that might also be called "using" each other for sex, but it has a very different connotation to the first definition of "using". To me, that's not using each other as much as working together for a purely physical goal, and more power to you both.
So, to answer the OP, is using men for sex bad? Yes, and no. Depending on what you mean by "using".
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
For me, it's never been just sex, thankfully.
I can't have sex with someone without some sort of connection, she's got to be able to hold a conversation, she has to show some personality, there's got to be some lead up... Doesn't matter how gorgeous she is, if she's as dumb as a post with no sense of humour, I simply can't see myself getting aroused
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I really can't tell if this is a serious question or not ? :)
Any guy who Saiz that they don't like it.... hmmmm they can't really be men.
But yeah... no it's terrible when that happens Meeka. Obviously what we need the most is cuddles and someone who will tell us that we can actually sing even if it is a lie :)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I had a woman older then me use me for sex and I loved it. Once her children were in bed and she had the house to herself somewhat she would send me a message to see what I was doing. Wouldn't even really have sex as it would be too loud so I would just tend to her, if I was lucky, it was returned.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Iv been suggesting it for years but with no luck.....treat me like nothing more than "that bloke you fuck when you feel the need" and thats that...just come round and fuck.👍👍👍
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
It doesn’t worry me if I’m just a booty call. As long as there’s mutual enjoyment a women’s welcome to use me for sex.
- Posted from rhpmobile
curiousnhorny05
6 years ago
Sometimes I want it but it’s not my style. But to have someone I have a good connection with able to answer the phone when I need a booty call that would be nice.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
While I definitely am not looking for a relationship, I do want a connection of sorts.
I need to have trust and respect, from both sides. I don't want to use or feel like I am used. Plus as many have mentioned, there is the build up that messaging in between encounters brings.
So I am on the FWB team as opposed to FB. I need a little more quality and substance :)RHP User
6 years ago
Is how We describe men on here or other sites with similar stigmas to RHP
It astounds us daily how guys make ZERO effort 95% of the time.
They make no effort to find out what SHE would be interred in and no effort to let HER know they are keen because they think she is attractive
Why do HOOK UPS AND ONS automatically means NO EFFORT REQUIRED! The other one is - moving to Kik guys automatically assume that that means they are in!!! Hello... no, it’s not an invitation it means she wants to get to know you a little better... see if you make her loins yearn for you and your game!
Really, it’s pretty disgusting how the art of seduction and communication are almost dead! If it continues at the rate of decline it is now the human race is fucked!
Think about all the people fucking through hook ups. I think we can agree that over the years this is getting more n more and almost expected!
Think about how many idiots have unprotected sex! Think about all those unwanted pregnancies!
Think about all those people now getting together because of the baby! Resentment is the emotion that comes to mind! Which means higher divorce rates, more warped minds of kids as parents fight about whose right and wrong.
Don’t get us wrong! We love hooking up as much as every guy n girl out there! Just, well, it would be really cool if guys made a little more effort ...
RANT OVER! PEACE MUTHA FUCKERS STAY HORNY FUCK HARD
- Posted from rhpmobile
181Dinner4Two
6 years ago
no
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
I’d be more than happy to be used for sex I think it’s fair to be told there intentions tho
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
You’re both satisfying basic and primal needs. Needs that date back to the beginning of primordial time.
Does there need to be anything more than that until you find the one person who changes your mind?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
If both parties know from the start then what's the problem ,,,
even if the late night , evening or early morning call is just to bring or make coffee sex can be defined in so many ways..
Just don't either side dare to fall In Love because that's when it gets very messy,,,,,,,RHP User
6 years ago
I agree with MrsE_polywife
There needs to be trust and respect for great sex. I honestly can’t do the FB thing. FWB is more about having a mutual respect for one another and makes for greater intimacy I think.RHP User
6 years ago
Would enjoy just getting used for sex. That’s what some of us are here for. Till we want to settle down in the future
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
I only wish
0z_boy
6 years ago
Dosent bother me at. all but when I was a lot younger and and hair and teeth, one girl I was seeing was more like a bloke, an inconsiderate one, we would fuck, she would cum and then roll over and start fucken snoring.I didnt like that, I was tattooing at the time and got some numbing gel that I used in the shop and secretly numbed her vaginal area and cleat in an effort to prolong her hahahaThis did not go quiet to plan as I used half a tube and couldnt even feel my dick after about 5 minutes.
Next.RHP User
6 years ago
Doesn't happen enough any out there wanna do it thought hit me up
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Fuck no! Don't mind a damned bit!! It has to be better than 25 years with someone who hates it!!!
RHP User
6 years ago
It's does not make you a bad person, women have a sex drive just as high if not higher than men I say if you are available use them or me
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
Great thread!
RHP User
5 years ago
For me i love being used by a woman is fun as i love turning a woman on teasing her every way i can to turn her on an get her fully aroused. I love making woman wild with desire for more an makes for crazy hot sessions of sex. Plus any chance to make a woman cum multiple times an look into a womans eyes when she is fully turned on an sex crazy is what i live so use me all u want for sex i say
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
5 years ago
Some girl please come use me!!! Lol
RHP User
5 years ago
No problem here! I find it incredibly erotic knowing I can help out a woman who is craving some release.. yum!
LetsFrolic
5 years ago
Wouldn't mind it at all.. not many men would. Women should just do it! Saves us having to do all the work
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