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Turn On with Hotwives

December 30 2018

/doSo what turns you on about a Hotwife scenario?
Either from the couple scenario where the Hotwife is the centre of attention or from the Male perspective that joins the Hotwife/Couple for some fun.
Everyone has a different turn on when it comes to anything in life and this shouldn't be an exception to that rule.

Do you enjoy a one off experience or something ongoing? Do you prefer to play solo or with the Husband present? Do you have any rules that helps you enjoy the experience? The list could be endless...

Comments

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    5 years ago

    ... mainly to know the husband is completely okay with what is to happen and where his boundaries are. Because even when you are with the hot wife she is still one part of the couple.



    I prefer it when M is there for those reasons. Either watching or listening from another room. What then elevates it is when F becomes quite vocal ... or certain positions and movements which are quite loud.



    Again, though, the most important part is your are part of a couple. Interestingly, quite often with round 2 or round 3 M tends to either come quite closer or even join in. That just adds to the permutations and the combinations of what can be achieved.

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    5 years ago

    From Mr HNP’s perspective, what turns him on about me hotwifing is a number of things.

    1. He has given his ok for me to play with other men on my own. Hence it’s a turn on as it shows the trust we have with each other. Boundaries have been discussed to which I never deviate from.
    2. It’s a turn on for him to be at work thinking about me getting hot with another guy.
    3. It’s a big turn on for me to ‘debrief’ (pun intended) with him that night about every tiny detail of my encounter that day.

    Certainly makes for an awesome night between us afterwards 🔥

    Hope this answers your questions.
    Ms NHPxx

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    5 years ago

    It is quite a turn on being wanted by a new person. Having a new partner in the bedroom is great as you get something new. I quite enjoy having more than one man being there to satisfy my sexual needs, that’s a bonus. Also knowing that it turns on my partner and he loves watching me as a third person and seeing his wife being wanted and desired by someone else. We don’t often play alone but have done the video side of it when I’ve been away on a work trip. That was a thrill.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Completely agree with hotnightsperth. ☺️

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'Rlee552'
    ... mainly to know the husband is completely okay with what is to happen and where his boundaries are. Because even when you are with the hot wife she is still one part of the couple.



    I prefer it when M is there for those reasons. Either watching or listening from another room. What then elevates it is when F becomes quite vocal ... or certain positions and movements which are quite loud.



    Again, though, the most important part is your are part of a couple. Interestingly, quite often with round 2 or round 3 M tends to either come quite closer or even join in. That just adds to the permutations and the combinations of what can be achieved.
    Is the turn on that you're with another man's wife? Knowing that the M knows about it and approves? And then there is the Hotwife aspect of it as well.

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    5 years ago

    There is the element of being with a hot lady. In providing her pleasure. Knowing that this is something her partner approves of. That is an incredibly powerful permission to be given.



    And then knowing she will be telling her partner about this pleasure (perhaps even showing pictures).



    The added element is how she communicates this pleasure to him. Is it there and then with him somehow present, is it over the telephone - just audio playing - occasionally video or is it afterwards. Part of the ‘audience’ you are playing to and who you also want to provide pleasure to is the partner. So you want to make it as memorable as possible for her. Because part of the pleasure the hotwife gets is often what she can communicate to her partner.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'Rlee552'
    There is the element of being with a hot lady. In providing her pleasure. Knowing that this is something her partner approves of. That is an incredibly powerful permission to be given.



    And then knowing she will be telling her partner about this pleasure (perhaps even showing pictures).



    The added element is how she communicates this pleasure to him. Is it there and then with him somehow present, is it over the telephone - just audio playing - occasionally video or is it afterwards. Part of the ‘audience’ you are playing to and who you also want to provide pleasure to is the partner. So you want to make it as memorable as possible for her. Because part of the pleasure the hotwife gets is often what she can communicate to her partner.



    What would be your ideal scenario? (The mind boggles :)

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Quoting 'Rlee552'
    There is the element of being with a hot lady. In providing her pleasure. Knowing that this is something her partner approves of. That is an incredibly powerful permission to be given.



    And then knowing she will be telling her partner about this pleasure (perhaps even showing pictures).



    The added element is how she communicates this pleasure to him. Is it there and then with him somehow present, is it over the telephone - just audio playing - occasionally video or is it afterwards. Part of the ‘audience’ you are playing to and who you also want to provide pleasure to is the partner. So you want to make it as memorable as possible for her. Because part of the pleasure the hotwife gets is often what she can communicate to her partner.



    What would be your ideal scenario? (The mind boggles :)

  • clarky1976

    clarky1976

    5 years ago

    Love trying all variations that meeting a hot wife could eventuate into from one on one to being watched filmed by hubby or helping hubby satisfy his horny wife. The sex is usually so hot and very erotic

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    5 years ago

    Aspirationally the ideal scenario is where everyone is completely satisfied and their expectations are fulfilled.



    For me, it would be her wearing a little short black dress with stockings and heels. Slowly undressing her. Her focus on me as I start to caress her. His focus on the both of us. Getting her completely lost in the moment. I want her to have that confidence that she does not need to seek assurance from him that it is okay. I want her to be loud, describing how it feels - my tongue, my hands, everything else about me ... until she can not describe it any further she can just express her pleasure.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Wow ! Hard one to answer.

    There are SO many turn ons for everyone involved in this scenario!
    Best way to fund put is to try it..

    T xx