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MFM Fantasy
May 11 2020
It seems a very taboo topic for females to bring up to their female friends or guys in general, but from my time on here I’ve realized quite a few women share this fantasy with me.
Is it
- societal stigma
- men not wanting to share
- female insecurity
Comments
RHP User
4 years ago
Might have to do with some men perceiving sexually liberated women as sluts and not girlfriend material perhaps??
Ahh fuck it....i dunno...RHP User
4 years ago
I couldn’t tell you, my friends and I discuss that sort of thing freely so I’ve never bothered looking for that conversation here. I can see though how you’d get mobbed by desperados here who were more interested in living out their own fantasy than yours though so maybe that’s why it’s not duscussed. I think what Anti said definitely holds some weight too..
FeistyFatty
4 years ago
I haven't found this to be the case for me. I LOVE Bi MMF and MMF and discuss them quite freely with female friends/colleagues and some male friends etc. Be interested to see what others say😊
RHP User
4 years ago
I much prefer a mmf as my last few experiences with ffm was terrible. Which is sad as im bi and i do miss that.
Freaky_Fun
4 years ago
Nope. I haven't found that the case either.
More the merrier, if they're bi even better 🥰
2EssesExploring
4 years ago
Hmmm, well I don’t discuss anything sexual at work, do so at your peril (actually had a pretty young lady innocently start talking about things of a sexual nature at work today, actually was an interesting topic but I had to back away!)
Friends? We don’t go into our kinks with our friends we are not sexual with.
Difference between men talking about mff fun and women talking about mmf fun, well it’s kind of an accepted norm that men are uncontrollable sexual maniacs. I’m not sure it’s a positive equality to want to be thought if the same!
nightingale8
4 years ago
I’ve learned two things about disclosure -
Never tell a straight male friend you’re not interested in.
Even the self professed modern liberated girls are weirded out. They just can’t relate.
Maybe i need new friends.RHP User
4 years ago
Don't tell a man your sexual fantasy.
Go make it happen for yourself.
Men are like a dog with a bone if you open up your fantasy to them. It becomes very unattractive and off-putting.
curiousgirl35
4 years ago
Love the idea but just want to experience ffm and mffm first.
RHP User
4 years ago
Depends who you choose to hangout with. I’m in a group of sex positive peeps and your fetishes as long as they are safe and not illegal are welcome.
I’ve had a bi mmf and loved it.
Eiliethiya
4 years ago
With my more open and close friends, not a problem discussing anything sexual at all. But with men...I have found the minute I confidently discuss what I like sexually with them, I cease to be a human being worthy of their respect and being treated as a person and equal. It becomes all about sex and what it will be for them. Regular conversation and flirting ends, and they feel they don't need to bother with the social 'niceties'. 🤷♀️
FeistyFatty
4 years ago
^^^ SO TRUE 😳😳😳
Sawadee
4 years ago
..when the penny dropped and l realized that good sex is only really good when the women im with is warmed up and relaxed, that means taking the time to find out what she needs and the patience to get her that way..
So yes ' men ( some men ) easily lose thier way when the testo kicks in and the natural urges take control of thier senses.. But with a little bit of thought and taking time to find out what it is that sets her into mood, will be one of the most rewarding things a man can ever do ...
So my tip for my fellow man is' find out what good sex means for your lady , take your time to make it happen ' then follow through and reap the rewards ..Sawadee
4 years ago
Went a litlle off track with my train of thought with that last post.. But regarding the MFM senario , this is one of my favorite fantasys and have lived it a few times.. My advice for the ladies , is just do it and don't worry about what others might think .. It's the worrying about others that stops you from enjoying one of mother nature's most wonderful activities in life ..
teamaj2
4 years ago
Briana I don’t share my fantasies or our reality of MFM with my everyday friends . It’s nothing to be ashamed of . I truly think they would be shocked , pass judgement and not understand it . With friends we have met thru attending parties and friends we have made online we have no issue sharing our hopes for future experiences and past experiences .
I agree with some of the others on many of their viewpoints . As the communicator of this couple ( female ) , I do encounter some interesting ( to say the least ) instant reactions once the chat turns to sex . Sometimes , as has been the said , the banter , flirting and getting to know someone flies out the window . It often just leads to lack of respect , a barrage of unwanted masturbation pictures .
In short I’ve no problem discussing MFM boundaries , expectations etc but often the male brain goes into overdrive and the getting to know someone is all over . As has been said a million times over on forums , we are all different and our ways of getting to know people are varied .
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Kokoflamingo
4 years ago
My RHP friends know about my bi mmf experiences. I wouldn't tell my other friends. I don't think one or two of them would bother, though. Havent tried MFM yet, still on my list. I look at some of my friends and wonder if they have little secrets like mine that they keep hidden :) You can never tell...…...
MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
I pick and choose, who I discuss things with. My mum, can discuss anything with, my female/male friends (depends who -most dont judge). As for coworkers depends too, if they are on here or not (A few are).
It is not worth discussing such topics with new potential men, as that is a whole other ball game.
Ms FoxyKokoflamingo
4 years ago
Some guys are very judgemental, I agree, even when they have on their profiles that they are into ffm, mmf, gang bangs and group sex
countrytouch82
4 years ago
Not all... My long term FWB over 4 years is a straight committed couple so pretty much all my intimacy is some kind of MFM. We didn't meet there but perhaps the poly or kink scene is another avenue to look for partners that aren't judgemental. Likewise I would absolutely adore having my own primary partner and perhaps someone to share too. There are those around that would be mentally mature enough. It might be hard to find something enduring when many are only focused on hookups (not that they are inherently bad but both of you have to be in the same boat at the same time).
RHP User
4 years ago
Koko
Little sex secrets aren't they delicious.
But I too have experienced the down turn in effort once you start answering sexual based questions.
I think some just go straight to fantasy land. One hand texting other hand in their pants.
Arousal can be same for men and women. Just timing is different.
Dirtyandfriendly
4 years ago
I have a few friends who secretly want one, but know their partners wouldn't. There are a lot of judgemental people out there and shaming those who enjoy it.
I'd love to organise an MFM for her, just to sit back and watch or join in. I've done it a few times, just need to really screen the men though.RHP User
4 years ago
I think it’s more of a society stigma. I will discuss taboo topics with fwb etc but not with everyday friends.
This could be mixed with a hint of jealousy in a fwb situation from the guy perspective in a mmf suggestion. I think guys should be happy to for fill there fwb desires will bring a closer bond then being jealous, works both ways
Koko I am sure all our friends have naughty secrets things they are keeping. One of lives mysteries
XBonnieClydeX
4 years ago
My absolute favourite dynamic and not shy or embarrased to admit it!! Nothing like a good spit roasting ...... even better yet is being air tight by MFMM
x Bonnie 😘
the_raptors2
4 years ago
Now that is the spirit Bonnie!
ukexpat1981
4 years ago
Love seeing a girl hold two cocks at once. Just love that sight
brattybabygirl89
4 years ago
I think its all depend on the style of friends they are, as you can have work, personal, intimate friendship groups and what you talk about with them will always differ.
I am sexually liberated and open to many things and if people want to chat to me about these things or kinks/fetishes I dont mind, even if I don’t personally find the same pleasure in them. Because i understand the feeling of not having people that you can be comfortable talking to about these things.
Many people, men and women alike have been raised and lead to believe that its wrong and nasty to be open about sexual things especially if they don’t fit with societal norms.
I have decided to screw societal norms and talk about it openly because i dont think keeping these things hidden is right because how can people learn, understand and practice safe play if they are unable to talk to others openly about it?
Deep_Love
4 years ago
Without trying to sound patronising Briana, perhaps its your age or the age of your friends. Many women don't come into their own reaching their full confidence until their late 30's.I have been lucky to meet a swag of women on here who can't wait to talk about threesomes.Pretty much majority of the population subscribe to gold ol' monogamy..... that gets rid of threesomes of any sort.
If a lady surrounds herself with the right friends it will never be taboo, societal stigma, men not wanting to shareor female insecurity
Stay away from the plague of sheep that is tinder and hang out here more to meet some wonderful like minded people.
~ Mrs_deep_love
gypsyo
4 years ago
im not ashamed to ask for it with hubby nor talk about it with friends who know me,but wouldnt be as open to talking about it with people ive just met, i love the feel of swapping cocks like that but also love watching hubby with another woman
RHP User
4 years ago
My friends and I discuss this often. We all want it. But while it seems acceptable for a male to want two females, makes are not as open minded about a female wanting two men. They don’t seem to like the idea of getting naked and close to other men. Maybe they are insecure? I don’t know 🤷♀️ but yes, always hesitant to bring up my fantasy with men. It doesn’t usually get a good reaction.
They either get disgusted or they love it but put you in the dirty girl category that deserves to get treated like crap.
My bi guy? He is the MOST fun. Love him to bits.
bianca_dd
4 years ago
I am extremely open about it, certainly not shy in admitting to guys and girls that having sex with more then one person is a hell of a lot of fun.
78fuck78
4 years ago
Love to have fun
RHP User
4 years ago
The best outcome is to be with a person or people that share your same values and kinks. There are some people that find MMF taboo. Just the same as some people would find the very existence of this website taboo. Then there are those that would find MMF tame. By default society is filled with such a broad spectrum of sexual desires and values. Hell some women find doggystyle degrading while some married women like to be gangbanged in front of their husbands.
Point is, try and find people who are closely aligned with your desires and values and then you will have the best time possible.
I think all ranges of the spectrum are acceptable and no-one should be made to feel shame about their kink / desire.
If you weren't 3600km away I'd be more than happy to indulge your fantasy :)RHP User
4 years ago
This is my biggest fantasy too! But yeah I definitely reckon societal stigma tbh. I find men who label women sluts unattractive. Especially when they're quite happy to bash women for being sexually adventurous but then complain when it's difficult to find lol.
RHP User
4 years ago
You into 3 somes briana?
RHP User
4 years ago
Pm me.....if you like
RHP User
4 years ago
The funny thing is more men want mfm than would freely admit it.
RHP User
4 years ago
From a mans point of view-I am in the trades and am usually very disheartened by the sort of banter that can go on on sites.I have implemented a very strict protocol on our sites to ensure that the guys vigorously discourage any newcomers from derogatory remarks about women - regardless if there are women on site or not - we wont tolerate it.
That being said, we are constantly discouraging guys from derogatory conversations on other sites we attend and it really shows how far guys need to go in order to stop this kind of crap in our society.
This brings me to the points made by many women already - in that once you mention the idea that you would like an MMF or MFM, then a great majority of guys stop look to you as a modern beautiful liberated Queen, and more as an easy target.
It really is an absolute shame, because this is the one main reason that Mrs Rough is very apprehensive about going down that path again (She did with a previous partner and it ended badly) even though this just turns me on no end.
Us guys have a very long way to go unfortunately!RHP User
4 years ago
Living in a small country town and my partner and I being into it (he is completely straight) we have found some see it as just gay, why would you want another guy that close, and others see it as he shouldn't be sharing his Mrs like that. Gotta love small town mentality sometimes 😂
ank13
4 years ago
i be too shy to ask this question .,,.,,.i would love to though
ank13
4 years ago
i guess most male will have it simple discussion about just happening it where as if female do it so they would be discussing descriptively
RHP User
4 years ago
Mmf over ffm The girls got the holes she needs the attention that’s all I can say👌
Ashbp1982
2 years ago
I feel for you females that you feel you have to hide your desires and fantasy's because of judgemental people. I think there is no sexier site than seeing a girl enjoying herself as much as the girls I've witnessed doing it.
realcpl4funBris
2 years ago
It's not something we share with our friends as per say but we love the dynamic of the MFM threesome & when we play it's usually in that situation. Most guys want the standard FFM threesome but not open to the other. There is certainly something exhilarating about bringing another guy into the bedroom.
Hotwife70
2 years ago
My wife was super shy at first to admitted but she is getting more lighten up after she reached to 40 ages plus with my encouragement she finally admitted MFM 3somes is one of to do list in her life.
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