MFM Fantasy

MFM Fantasy

    | May 11, 2020
Brianna88   Woman 31yrs
So I’m genuinly curious why women are more shy/embarrassed to admit about the apparently common “mfm threesome fantasy”

It seems a very taboo topic for females to bring up to their female friends or guys in general, but from my time on here I’ve realized quite a few women share this fantasy with me.

Is it
- societal stigma
- men not wanting to share
- female insecurity

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The_Antichrist   Man 41yrs

Might have to do with some men perceiving sexually liberated women as sluts and not girlfriend material perhaps??

Ahh fuck it....i dunno...
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Phoenix_Rising   Woman 38yrs

I couldn’t tell you, my friends and I discuss that sort of thing freely so I’ve never bothered looking for that conversation here. I can see though how you’d get mobbed by desperados here who were more interested in living out their own fantasy than yours though so maybe that’s why it’s not duscussed. I think what Anti said definitely holds some weight too..
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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 40yrs

I haven't found this to be the case for me. I LOVE Bi MMF and MMF and discuss them quite freely with female friends/colleagues and some male friends etc. Be interested to see what others say😊
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moan_a_lisa   Woman 50yrs

I much prefer a mmf as my last few experiences with ffm was terrible. Which is sad as im bi and i do miss that.
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Freaky_Fun   Woman 50yrs

Nope. I haven't found that the case either.
More the merrier, if they're bi even better 🥰
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2EssesExploring   Couple Man 45yrs Woman 34yrs

Hmmm, well I don’t discuss anything sexual at work, do so at your peril (actually had a pretty young lady innocently start talking about things of a sexual nature at work today, actually was an interesting topic but I had to back away!)
Friends? We don’t go into our kinks with our friends we are not sexual with.
Difference between men talking about mff fun and women talking about mmf fun, well it’s kind of an accepted norm that men are uncontrollable sexual maniacs. I’m not sure it’s a positive equality to want to be thought if the same!
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nightingale8   Woman 34yrs

I’ve learned two things about disclosure -

Never tell a straight male friend you’re not interested in.
Even the self professed modern liberated girls are weirded out. They just can’t relate.

Maybe i need new friends.
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Getmeplease

Don't tell a man your sexual fantasy.

Go make it happen for yourself.

Men are like a dog with a bone if you open up your fantasy to them. It becomes very unattractive and off-putting.
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curiousgirl35   Couple Man 37yrs Woman 37yrs

Love the idea but just want to experience ffm and mffm first.
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Chriscat   Woman 50yrs

Depends who you choose to hangout with. I’m in a group of sex positive peeps and your fetishes as long as they are safe and not illegal are welcome.
I’ve had a bi mmf and loved it.
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Eiliethiya   Woman 42yrs

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With my more open and close friends, not a problem discussing anything sexual at all. But with men...I have found the minute I confidently discuss what I like sexually with them, I cease to be a human being worthy of their respect and being treated as a person and equal. It becomes all about sex and what it will be for them. Regular conversation and flirting ends, and they feel they don't need to bother with the social 'niceties'. 🤷‍♀️

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FatFunFiesty  

Woman 40yrs

^^^ SO TRUE 😳😳😳
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Sawadee   Man 57yrs

Many moons ago..

..when the penny dropped and l realized that good sex is only really good when the women im with is warmed up and relaxed, that means taking the time to find out what she needs and the patience to get her that way..

So yes ' men ( some men ) easily lose thier way when the testo kicks in and the natural urges take control of thier senses.. But with a little bit of thought and taking time to find out what it is that sets her into mood, will be one of the most rewarding things a man can ever do ...

So my tip for my fellow man is' find out what good sex means for your lady , take your time to make it happen ' then follow through and reap the rewards ..
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Sawadee   Man 57yrs

Opps..

Went a litlle off track with my train of thought with that last post.. But regarding the MFM senario , this is one of my favorite fantasys and have lived it a few times.. My advice for the ladies , is just do it and don't worry about what others might think .. It's the worrying about others that stops you from enjoying one of mother nature's most wonderful activities in life ..
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teamaj2  

Couple Man 38yrs Woman 58yrs

Briana I don’t share my fantasies or our reality of MFM with my everyday friends . It’s nothing to be ashamed of . I truly think they would be shocked , pass judgement and not understand it . With friends we have met thru attending parties and friends we have made online we have no issue sharing our hopes for future experiences and past experiences .
I agree with some of the others on many of their viewpoints . As the communicator of this couple ( female ) , I do encounter some interesting ( to say the least ) instant reactions once the chat turns to sex . Sometimes , as has been the said , the banter , flirting and getting to know someone flies out the window . It often just leads to lack of respect , a barrage of unwanted masturbation pictures .
In short I’ve no problem discussing MFM boundaries , expectations etc but often the male brain goes into overdrive and the getting to know someone is all over . As has been said a million times over on forums , we are all different and our ways of getting to know people are varied .
Ax
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 56yrs

RHP friends

My RHP friends know about my bi mmf experiences. I wouldn't tell my other friends. I don't think one or two of them would bother, though. Havent tried MFM yet, still on my list. I look at some of my friends and wonder if they have little secrets like mine that they keep hidden :) You can never tell...…...
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 48yrs

I'm not embarressed or ashamed at all discussing 3somes or Taboo topics

I pick and choose, who I discuss things with. My mum, can discuss anything with, my female/male friends (depends who -most dont judge). As for coworkers depends too, if they are on here or not (A few are).

It is not worth discussing such topics with new potential men, as that is a whole other ball game.

Ms Foxy
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Kokoflamingo  

Woman 56yrs

Miss Foxxxy




Some guys are very judgemental, I agree, even when they have on their profiles that they are into ffm, mmf, gang bangs and group sex
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countrytouch82   Man 37yrs

Not all... My long term FWB over 4 years is a straight committed couple so pretty much all my intimacy is some kind of MFM. We didn't meet there but perhaps the poly or kink scene is another avenue to look for partners that aren't judgemental. Likewise I would absolutely adore having my own primary partner and perhaps someone to share too. There are those around that would be mentally mature enough. It might be hard to find something enduring when many are only focused on hookups (not that they are inherently bad but both of you have to be in the same boat at the same time).
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moan_a_lisa   Woman 50yrs

Koko

Little sex secrets aren't they delicious.
But I too have experienced the down turn in effort once you start answering sexual based questions.

I think some just go straight to fantasy land. One hand texting other hand in their pants.

Arousal can be same for men and women. Just timing is different.

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