M47
Dom/Sub relationship
May 27 2018
- Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
6 years ago
You may do better if you rethink your mixed messages...using phrases like serious and happy to submit whilst saying, not into pain, nothing to wild...
it's rather like saying you love to swim and want a coach just as long as it's not too wet....
Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
You wanna be dominated and treated like a little bitch?
Giv marriage a shot
🤣
- Posted from rhpmobile
The_Phoenix
6 years ago
I did🤦♂️
B gone you wicked thing
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
I think thats what the OP may be looking for. Not a domme. I was worshipped sexually and he did what ever I asked. I didnt have him shackled and gagged. Nor did I flail the skin off his back. Dom/sub means different things to different people.
RHP User
6 years ago
So what? Someone can be submissive and still have some boundaries or things they are not into. I don’t think it’s mixed messages at all, just a matter of finding the right partner.
thirstywa
6 years ago
I tend to agree with VivalaKoko and CandyD.
I have been a sub for a magnificent Mistress in the past where no pain was involved at all. I was used in many mays without pain and thoroughly enjoyed the experience.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
sub dom is an individual thing
RHP User
6 years ago
My preference are those whose only boundaries are children and animals. However that doesn’t mean I will inflict physical pain on every sub I play with. For me it’s about knowing I can push the boundaries of a sub rather than adhering to their ‘want list’. There’s an adrenaline rush that goes with BDSM play for the Dom and the sub and sometimes that can confused with sexual release.
Hottie1
6 years ago
Please note the following post is based only on MY EXPERIENCES and is not a generalisation.
I’m yet to find a dom that is one, true to the form (even though individuality has a role here). I’ve not had anyone know me intimately enough to know my limitations, to know my desires in their entirety and to push my limits, to help me obscure if not rid me of some insane emotional triggers. The inane dribble of so many authors who’ve flooded us with BDSM ‘narrative’ has not helped the cause, nor has porn industry.
Have I submitted, yes, but not in my truest essence as a sub. I’ve not been able to really trust that his sexual interests won’t override his ability to truly be a Dom or I’ve yet to find a true master.
I won’t submit to another woman, I’m a dominant person by my very nature. In saying that, I’ve have had a beautiful friend help me with one trigger, emotionally charged yet the most cathartic experience, truly thankful that she and her gorgeous man are in the scene and have a very safe space to explore that.
Aa Domme, I’ve only been that in very intimate conditions. I need to know the sub well, to know boundaries, limitations and to push the exploration for my sub. Rarely has it been sexual (penetration) but the sexuality of dominance is the turn on for me. it’s not about whips, chains and probes but about my sub and their desires. It’s also not a role play for me either, if there isn’t authenticity in the dom/sub relationship then what’s in it for everyone?
Good luck in your search OP.
Mary xx
HarleyQandMrO
6 years ago
agree with Hottie1
I was a Dom my ex husband was my sub for over 12 year. we explored things we both wanted to try and set the boundaries. For me controlling someone far bigger, stronger and more powerful then me was Empowering
Dominating someone is very natural to me and I also had a sub female. again someone strong,confident and Intelligent . Though a number of things were what I wanted. I enjoy causing pain in many different ways , chains and ropes, degradation and humiliation, but all these were desired by the sub and boundaries were set and an understanding of what was acceptable to both subs was agreed and put in place not just made up on the night
These may have been different to my needs and kicks But as a responsible Dom, you follow the subs needs
These boundaries can be pushed ever so slightly now and again to keep things interesting And That is why safe words are in place. There is only going to be damage if the Dom decides to.push to hard or do something not agreed and this would break down trust and the relationship. Due to commitments, this was not a 24/7 thing like some.but on the weekends of dominating. Which could go on for hours days, sexual intercause would never take place in the usual vanilla way, male penetrate Female, as that would shift the dynamics of the female being the Dom. In short it's the sub that sets the limits and it's their kinks /fetish's that are abided to and every one has a different need, nobody is right or wrong, a true Dom will accommodate the subs needs.
So who is to tell Eagle 752 what he wants to wrong and that he should be experiencing pain. He will just have to find the right woman who has needs that match
I am still a Dom but in a relationship with another true Dom male. Whose ideas match mine perfectly.I didn't think it possible. But what we have sexually is amazing., because of our nature's and experience, nothing,is out.of bounds, we try things out that we wouldn't normally do, but never one of us being or feeling like a sub. Just excitment and pleasure of explorIng
Just absolute,equals Freaks with the same likes, kinks a fetish's. Who gonna tell.us this is wrong?
- Posted from rhpmobile
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