M45
Bi Kissing
February 16 2016
My question is .. I've had alot of bi fun but never kissed m2m.
Is this the norm? It's weird .. I can do lots but this seems like crossing a big mental line .. what are your experiences?
Personally I'd do anything once .. more if it was fun .. but feel like the guy would need to be super good looking.
Is it all in my head?
Comments
RHP User
8 years ago
Hi,
i enjoy MMF guy Bi play but kissing a guy is a hard limit for me I just wont do it. It don't think it is at all unusual especially if you are more orientated to straight.
LC
AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Everyone is different.I don't mind if the other guy is not into kissing. But if he is............yum.Makes it that much better. Passion.Nothing better than having my feet on his shoulders, him deep inside me and getting a passionate kiss as he pumps me......... Gawd, I think I need to go have a wank now thinking about that. LOL. I'm sounding like I touch.And the females watching, love it most of the time. Gets them going.
RHP User
8 years ago
I also dont kiss women very much, anywhere else is fine though,when Ive played mff. Does nothing for me and I mention it very early in communication as a lot of bi women are very into it. Just my thang'. No biggy.
RHP User
8 years ago
I'm curious as to your "mental line", what does that mean to you? I'm going to assume that you mean kissing a guy makes you gay? Please enlighten me!
I have met bi guys that kiss, I've met some that don't, I've met "straight" guys that will?! It comes down to the individual as to what they feel comfortable with, or are willing to try.
But please don't put yourself in a box and feel that you "have" to do anything you are not comfortable with...RHP User
8 years ago
Some onlt top, some only bottom, some only do or want oral.
RHP User
8 years ago
I know many people have kissing as a 'special' activity in the sexual realm. Funnily enough there seems to be something more emotionally intimate about kissing than some of the other more explicit sex acts. I have no idea whether it's 'common' (just what is 'normal' anyway) for guys to avoid kissing when playing bi, but I know I wouldn't play with any guy I wasn't ready to kiss passionately. I love kissing, and there's something quite fun about the different texture and experience of kissing a hot guy.
RHP User
8 years ago
that's different! In my experience bi curious women will make out with a girl and let one go down on her, but I've never met anyone like you!
Sex without kissing is just mutual wanking IMO....RHP User
8 years ago
Im a unique weirdo.
RHP User
8 years ago
I've never really understood how people refrain from kissing ...
Kissing is so so so much a part of all sexual encounters .. Foreplay is founded on kissing , hot sex and hard out pashing are a must .
From body parts to lips ..
How do u stop yourself ?
Human affection is defined by a simple kiss ..💋
Don't think it should matter if male to male or female to female ..if your sexually attracted to them and intending to have sex then kissing is a natural response ..
Mrs. G here 💋💋💋
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
I kissed a girl and I liked it.....
RHP User
8 years ago
fucken fuck 3 day growth like a bed of nails fuck that ! Suck his dick though.
AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
I was looking forward to a pash at the meet and greet in October. No pash and wont be sucking ya dick
RHP User
8 years ago
Koko....
Would you do it again?RHP User
8 years ago
I can not be sexually intimate with another man. In other words I don't kiss, cuddle, suck nipples etc. however, I will suck and wank his cock, lick his balls and fuck him all night but I can't imagine kissing another man, makes me feel physically nauseous (no offence meant)
RHP User
8 years ago
Amigo Mick here, During my journey into my bi side I have kissed a couple of guys, mainly in jest, but in one instance I found I got lost in the play and kissed the said guy, I really enjoyed it, In fact it felt so good that I went back for a more passionate kiss once I realised that the kiss was turning him on as well. Like most things, when you stop over thinking things and let things happen naturally you can experience something kinda wonderful. I'd still go back for that kiss even now. So OP, I don't think you can force yourself to try something that you are not wanting to try but if you are lucky it may just happen and then it will be special.Cheers Mick
RHP User
8 years ago
Red lipstick at the ready.......
RHP User
8 years ago
Much flesh at the ready!
RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'bare037' I know many people have kissing as a 'special' activity in the sexual realm. Funnily enough there seems to be something more emotionally intimate about kissing than some of the other more explicit sex acts. I have no idea whether it's 'common' (just what is 'normal' anyway) for guys to avoid kissing when playing bi, but I know I wouldn't play with any guy I wasn't ready to kiss passionately. I love kissing, and there's something quite fun about the different texture and experience of kissing a hot guy.
It looks so freaking hot too...
ocean_man
8 years ago
Get a room !
RHP User
8 years ago
Enough already, do you know what your Calvin Klein picture does to me? 😘 now I have your image kissing another guy noooooooo I can't take any more. I'm dying here 😛😜
RHP User
8 years ago
I'm still eagerly waiting my first real live threesomes/moresomes. Had a few beach ones but not properly arranged, one with a woman, but kissing wasn't a line I could cross, and never put out for her, she did me, and I did her hubby lol it was completely random and all happened so fast. I don't know if I'll ever interact with another female, I suspect I will, and just quietly, kind of want to get between a woman's legs, taste and lick/kiss the grooves. I'd love the opportunity to do to a woman what I'd like to have done to me, with the tease, slowly and lightly running my fingers down over her thighs and making her wet with anticipation. It would be a big step and I don't go looking for it because I'm so fussy, she would have to be really hot, to me at least, that's subjective I know. Funny thing though, I have had couples hit on me where I've been attracted to the woman but not her partner so promising but all the planets may never line up. Mmf bi though is a must, I'm gaggin for that but to stay on topic, yes they would have to kiss, kissing is everything, without it there's no passion, for me anyway. Thought it would have happened before now but I found most of the bi guys I was in contact with just wanted cock, pussy didn't seem to come up in conversation lol and that's not enough for me. Bi or gay is the question as I've discovered. One guy asked me how many I could handle at once, my response was who's counting, but then it was all about the cocks, not that I don't love cock mind you mmm 😛😊
RHP User
8 years ago
lol did I hear my name? 😘 and yes I'm quite wet right now after that post I just wrote and the other ones I've read 😛 Some touching tonight I think 😉 delicious subject mmm 😯
RHP User
8 years ago
Just wanted to say nice written part in your profile. I know you're not asking for an analysis but thought it was refreshing to read, nice one 😃
RHP User
8 years ago
Love it!
Maybe "crossing the line" was a bad sentence - more leaping over another sexual boundary.
precious142
8 years ago
Quoting 'The3Amigos' Amigo Mick here, During my journey into my bi side I have kissed a couple of guys, mainly in jest, but in one instance I found I got lost in the play and kissed the said guy, I really enjoyed it, In fact it felt so good that I went back for a more passionate kiss once I realised that the kiss was turning him on as well. Like most things, when you stop over thinking things and let things happen naturally you can experience something kinda wonderful. I'd still go back for that kiss even now. So OP, I don't think you can force yourself to try something that you are not wanting to try but if you are lucky it may just happen and then it will be special.Cheers Mick Exactly!!
RHP User
8 years ago
Two males kissing such a turn off,But give me a woman and i can kiss her like my lover,Especially while my man watches us.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
Is everything ;)
RHP User
8 years ago
For a long time I had thought the best way to find out if a guy would be into bi play was to ask him if he'd be willing or interested in kissing another guy. Oh, how wrong I was. Seems cock play is the first step, then fucking - then kissing. Boing! The opposite (in my experience) for women. Shame, as I love watching guys kissing, as it appeals to my sensual side.
mwaxAnnieWhichway
8 years ago
There was one poster in here on page 1 that stated that he could never be sexually intimate with another guy and only found it acceptable to suck and wank his cock.....
Goodness, lets not go to extremes. Kiss another guy.....ewwwwRHP User
8 years ago
Hotter seeing guys suck dick than suck face. For those that dont kiss in a bi situation, Im sure you enjoy yourself. And for those who do kiss in a bi experience, Im sure you do too
RHP User
8 years ago
Hey bi ladies n lovers!! Drinks now?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
8 years ago
I have had more bi,curious,or straight men then gay men over the years,and most men have not had sex with their wives for years.They are the ones whether they have tried sex with a man in their youth or not can't wait to get mouth to mouth action,sometimes I think I feel their tongue crawling around in my stomach HA HA.Then some just can not bring themselves to kiss,It's even though they enjoyed the sex,the man thinks if he was to kiss me he will feel more a gay man more than bi or curious.I have spoken to many that can't bring themselves to kiss me and they say that's how most of them feel.Yet others are worried if he was to kiss me he will feel as if it's cheating on his wife.So it is what the man is comfortable with,not if it's normal or not.As every man is different.Does that help or make it more confusing?
RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Matchingcouple' Two males kissing such a turn off,But give me a woman and i can kiss her like my lover,Especially while my man watches us.
- Posted from rhpmobile I agree, it doesn't turn me off, just not on, but let me go with a woman and I'm extremely turned on. There's something about kissing another female that gets me going!
So I think thats completely normal, thats the best part of sex, you make your own rules!RHP User
8 years ago
I agree with Superboi82. Im not a huge fan of mm kissing, but on that note, Im meeting a guy on Wednesday night for my first MM fun. Hes 50 and Im 37. Hes gonna be taking pics while I blow him etc, which is a HUGE turn on! I want him to cum in my mouth, but the thought of a kiss is weird! Maybe its the intimacy factor? I don't know. Also, Im not at all into GIVING anal, but I seriously hope he enjoys it!! So ultimately, I DONT KNOW LOL
mixtures
8 years ago
Im all for some hot pashing and kissing with both men and woman as long they have their oral hygiene in check and preferably an non smoker.
As it all normally starts with a kiss....RHP User
8 years ago
I've found that when in the mood wild horses couldn't stop me kissing guy or girl
AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
When l pash a guy in front of his woman and she just melts into her own puddle.
Or in front of mine. Same result.
Missb4u
8 years ago
God what a turn on. Have never seen it in person unfortunately.
it's the thing my kinky dreams are made of 😜😍
And guys deep throating other guys 😁RHP User
8 years ago
and it's the hottest freaking thing ever!
RHP User
8 years ago
Don't over think it.... just do it and enjoy it. It is just contact between two people!
RHP User
6 years ago
I will Snowball with another guy, but i don't like kissing. I do know a 22 year old student and his 19 year old GF loves to watch us fuck. I kiss him for her...She is so sexy i don't think there is anything i wouldn't do if she asked!! :)
gazpacho
6 years ago
I usually start kissing biceps, then armpits, neck.. and then lips.
I’m a bit of a sensualist and I love my primal play.
Hugs
Gaz
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
6 years ago
i used to feel that kissing a guy was weird until a great kisser planted 1 on me unexpectedly. Now don't mind at all, i consider myself a good kisser.come if you're willing to suck cock or lick pussy whats a kiss
RHP User
6 years ago
I'm the same....
Kissing seems to just be a hard boundary for me when it comes to m2m. I can't really explain why that is. I guess my attractions to different genders just sit very differently in my head emotionally. There's a certain kind of warm and fuzzy with kissing which just doesn't make sense to me with guys....
Interestingly though, I think I could kiss a certain type of super hot guy who was naturally completely hairless, and I think I could get into it with CDs - even if they're not entirely passable. So I think it's something that could be a bit negotiable in some situations. But yeah, for the most part, I think of m2m kissing as a hard boundary for me.RHP User
4 years ago
yes i am the same way its not for me at all totally enjoy being with a guy enjoy giving and receiving oral but have not yet swallow but have been thinking a lot about it and willing to try love to be top and bottom just NO KISSING. for me
RHP User
4 years ago
Too each there own but it’s pretty hot and ranch as well, big part of sex for me with men and women. Feels weird not doing it.
RHP User
4 years ago
Not much of a kisser anyway,
Not interested in watching guys kiss on tv or in porn.
Hard line, hard barrier and no appeal but I like anal play and wonder what it is like to have sex with a male. Call it a Bi experience or experience whatever, would I suck a guy, would I take it in the ass? Would. I like to be sucked?
I’m open to suggestion but I don’t want to kiss one. If I hooked up I think if I didn’t suck his some dick first thing I would bail, if he was hard and I was game I would want to feel a cock in my ass, all going well he will blow me afterward be it my first fuck or my last one. I’m sure I would lose the urge if I blew my load first if a guy blew me I think I would be uhh all shy now not horny can I bail,
I’m open to the idea but finding opportunity, do guys who hook up with straight buys want to fuck them or be fucked?RHP User
4 years ago
Bi kissing can be hot, especially if you have a mouth full of cum.
RHP User
3 years ago
I’m definitely into kissing in bi group play, but the mmf threesomes I’ve had it was all about the cock 😂 I’d definitely be hoping for the man to be into it too.
RHP User
3 years ago
My man loves kissing guys he has no issues at all with it
blix_and_queen
3 years ago
One of the first questions we ask from a potential. Do you kiss? To us, both male and female it is very much part of the experience and intimacy of the act itself. Sex without kissing would be a little off putting for us, as a couple because we enjoy seeing each other kiss and being kissed.
Everyone has boundaries and no it is not strange, just your preference and that is ok, it just might not be ok for some who you may wish to bed.melbbeachboy87
3 years ago
Also had heaps of mmf sex. I don’t mind kissing guys and will during MM sex. With a MF couple it sometimes feels to intimate to kiss in front of her. Also don’t think most guys would be keen onkissing after I have been sucking his cock.
RHP User
3 years ago
No kiss, no play. I love kissing during sex, it is sexy makes it more sensual and a connection.
blix_and_queen
3 years ago
Something we always ask with a prospective male. We prefer guys who kiss. Something we both enjoy. It is a big tick for us, if you do kiss.
RHP User
a year ago
Love kissing hubby when playing with a couple. But always communicate clearly ahead of time so everyone is on the same page. Have had ones with and without. The ones with were a bit more fun. Lol
RHP User
a year ago
Love kissing. But always communicate first to ensure everyone knows each other’s limits. I’ve found bi mmf with kissing very sensual. Love it.
RHP User
a year ago
I’ve had mmf with and without kissing. Always respect couples desires. The ones with kissing are extra sensual though. And I love when the kissing turns on the lady even more.
RHP User
10 months ago
My lady loves seeing me kiss a guy when we're having a MMF it turns us both on no end
RHP User
8 months ago
You are missing out on the best part of sex with anyone male female trans etc. it’s incredibly erotic and different with each.
Bisydguy
7 months ago
Kissing is one of the best parts…..it starts the passion
Shellbicouple
7 months ago
Love kissing, I think it is the start of foreplay, it gets me really turned on, not much into kissing dearded blokes thoigh.
RHP User
4 months ago
I’m perfectly okay kissing guys. It can be super sensual. But totally accept if the couple ain’t into it. The times I’ve done it wifey has been real turned on by us. Hehe
RHP User
4 months ago
I do like kissing my bi-partner it just makes things that more hotter
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