Ask Me Anything: Miss Penelope Dreadful

February 02 2019

Hello beautiful humans!I am a professional Dominatrix, lifestyle pervert and event organiser. I have worked in establishments, toured interstate and overseas, and built an independent career since 2007. I love what I do and the incredible plethora of experiences that it has exposed Me to. I have met so many generous, kind, curious and imaginative people through My vocation.
I want to give you the chance to access the mass of knowledge that I've accumulated over the years.
So, Ask Me Anything.
CaveatIf your question is intended to be spiteful, stigmatising or derogatory, I reserve the right to not engage, or alternatively to use it as an example of what not to do.If you would like anonymity, you may send your question in private message.If your statement is abusive it will be reported to site administration.If anyone belittles or attacks anyone else in this thread, you will be summarily dismissed. We already have enough shame heaped on us by society at large, we do not need to do this to each other.

Comments

  • 181Dinner4Two

    181Dinner4Two

    5 years ago

    With your many years of gathering knowledge on being a Femdom, how have you learn to find and then expand intimet play between youreslf and a person new to this form of adult play.

    (also us 'play' an acceptable word choice?)

    Cheers edd.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    Hi Penelope, thanks for putting the question out there!

    We've heard you mention as a pro dom that you prefer to ask the "how do you want feel" question, rather than "what do you want me to do." We're guessing it's more about a mindset, but could you elaborate please?

    Also, any suggestions for two introverts in a relationship that tend towards the submissive end of the spectrum negotiating their kink. The back and forth banter of "you tie me up... no you tie me up" can be interesting. We're guessing working out the communication of the first question might go a long way towards answering the second 😊

    Thanks, hopefully this thread gets interesting in a good way

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Do you like .... err... stuff?

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    5 years ago

    Watching with interest.....

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    Great question about two introverts being submissive.

    I'm in a relationship like that. At times it can be interesting.

    Ms Foxy

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    We've been interested in Clothed Female Nude Male (CFNM) play with small groups. Have you got any experience with this? Any parties or groups you might be able to recommend? XXXTom & Tess

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    What demographic group have you found to be your main source of business?
    I am genuinely curious. Movies, television etc portray it as a rich boys fantasy thing. Is this true?

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    5 years ago

    We've definitely got better at it since we started this little adventure!
    We're both people watchers and we've started to work out the pleasure you can get from your partners reactions. We're starting to use that little bit of self knowledge to switch things up a bit!
    It still doesn't help two introverts in a club, but we're sure we'll get there one day

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Hi Penelope, ive always wonted to experiment being a sub, my ex wonted nothing to do with it.but now im single, but i find my self struggling to even find where to start.any tips for someone very new to this would be highly appreciated

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Hello mistress.
    I am looking for a mistress in Newcastle.
    Can you recommend anyone that you may know who I can speak too.

  • bianca_dd

    bianca_dd

    3 years ago

    I am familiar with the terms "Dominatrix" & "event organiser" but the "lifestyle pervert" has got me stumped. Even Mrs Google didn't know when I asked her. Can you demystify the term please?

  • RuralBiCple

    RuralBiCple

    3 years ago

    I am painting an old door, should I undercoat it first or just paint the top coat straight over?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    What’s your favourite weapon of choice to control or command your sub

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I would like to try water sports with my partner but don’t know how to bring it up.. any advice?

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Ok so ask anything .....
    how’s your home life ? Many avo’s breached. Happy ?

  • yumbodytolove

    yumbodytolove

    3 years ago

    I read of women wanting a dominant. I would like to know if this can be taught to someone. How far do you go/ what should, can or can't the dom do.