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Watch Viral video “Be a Lady they Said”You need to watch this viral video "Be A Lady, They Said"

Christina Miller | February 28 2020

Watch Viral video “Be a Lady they Said”

If you haven’t already seen Cynthia Nixon’s narrating “Be a Lady, They said!” yet, watch it now. This powerful video has been viewed over two million times and has been shared countless times since its release.

Nixon reads a list of contradicting messages that women often hear throughout their lives. Her words are coupled with imagery from movies, tabloids, TV shows and advertisements to deliver a powerful message.

“Be a lady they said. Your skirt is too short; your shirt is too low. Don’t show so much skin. Leave something to the imagination. Don’t be a temptress. Men can’t control themselves. Men have needs. Look sexy. Look hot. Don’t be so provocative, you’re asking for it.”

Further into the video, she continues to read more contradicting messages...


“Don’t be too fat. Don’t be too thin. Eat up, slim down. Stop eating so much. Order a salad, don’t eat carbs. God, you look like a skeleton!”


A large majority of women would sadly agree that they have heard these messages countless of times. These kind of messages have been ingrained in our culture for thousand of years, shaping women, and continue to shape and mould young women. They can quite often be the cause of many women's lack of self-esteem, self-doubt and the cause of much needless anxiety.


This video shines a light on the immense pressure women face every day. 




Read the full transcript of Camille Rainville’s powerful words.


Watch the video for yourself and share with us your thoughts in the comments below.


Image credit: YouTube

Comments

  • gaiagirlmelb

    08 Mar 2020

    I loved this so much. It expresses every frustration I've ever felt about being a woman. Thank goodness for rhp - full sexual expression in a judgement-free environment!

  • blix_and_queen

    05 Mar 2020

    The expectations for us to be a particular way, feel, act, and perform, is so contrived.

  • norty123

    01 Mar 2020

    Awesome, women of all ages, shapes and colours should see this. Women, stop tearing each other down, build your sister up!!

  • Easypleased

    29 Feb 2020

    How true

  • wantyou_25

    28 Feb 2020

    Very powerful true video.