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It’s a Friday night and Andrea is getting ready for a very special night in with her husband Dave. Andrea can barely slip into her silky lingerie in anticipation while Dave is waiting for his lovely wife on their bed, wearing little more than a bathrobe and a knowing grin.
The door bell rings. Andrea’s heart races fast as Dave goes to welcome their guest into the house.
“Hello gorgeous.”
Andrea looks over to see Matt at the bedroom door. He has the same devious look on his face as he did the last time he paid Andrea and Dave a visit. He moves towards Andrea and plants a soft kiss on her neck.
“Hope you’re up for a good night. My mate Rob’s on his way too.”

So unfolds another tale of a greedy girl getting her just desserts. Indeed, more and more women are experiencing the delights of being the centre of multiple male attention and having more than one toy to play with. Such is the growing prevalence of greedy girls that many swingers clubs around Australia organise events specifically geared towards women who want two or more male playmates in a session. Many couples on RHP are also testing the waters with MFM threesomes while ladies with bigger appetites are organising private gang bangs regularly.

Involving single guys into couple play (and on this occasion we’ll just refer to straight males) isn’t particularly new but it does beg a number of questions: What sort of couple enjoys including single guys? Isn’t anyone interested in girl-on-girl action anymore? And, how does the male partner really feel about the extra penis, or even penises? We’ll also look at how you can find the right guys to make your night an occasion worthy of turning into a DVD.

The easiest group fun to organise

As any couple who’s been on RedHotPie long enough to know, it isn’t always easy to find the right couple to meet and play with, let alone a single girl. Even when you finally get to meet some socially compatible couples, it’s not unusual to find that their playing habits differ greatly to yours. For example, the lady of one couple may expect a marathon session whereas the male of the other couple is generally content with one quality session before succumbing to the need to sleep. On other occasions, the lady doesn’t even get the extra rogering if the other party is not into swapping sex, or (alas...) if the other gentleman is unable to perform for one reason or another.

Given these scenarios, it’s easy to see why many couples are starting to look at single guys as a surefire way to have fun. Single guys are plentiful on RHP which makes finding the right playmate/s amongst them quite easy. Before too long, you can rack up a veritable short list of eligible guys who can go hard, go all night and go home when the job is done. Most are happy to home deliver too and rarely insist on a lengthy dinner or drinks session before working out if sex is or isn’t on the cards. Score! Got a thing for blondes? Requiring someone with an exceptional power tool? Whatever you need, you can find it amongst the good men on RHP.

Are some couples over girl-on-girl fun?

Surely not! How can anyone be bored of watching two (or more) gorgeous girls getting it on, much less being in the thick of it? Actually, most guys will agree that at some point it’s just as enjoyable sinking a cold one out the back with the other dude while the ladies go for it. Furthermore, given how suggestively girls dance with each other at a night club these days, watching actual girl-on-girl action isn’t a huge stretch from that. Unless the invitation to join in is extended, a guy’s just gotta be happy that his lady is having a great time.

And is she? Perhaps not as much as you’d think. She’s not a lesbian after all and there is only so much mutual brazilian-waxing appreciation she can do in one night. Let’s be frank and admit that women still want penetrative sex and often with a man other than her own partner if she’s in the swinging scene. If a woman is mainly out to experiment with other females, then this point (and the entire article really) is moot. However, for ladies who unashamedly enjoy sex with men and can find the presence (and expectations) of the other woman a distraction, single guys are ideal. In most cases, single guys are a sure thing and don’t demand a set of conditions in order to perform. It’s pure pleasure for the lady, through and through.

How do men feel about their partners having sex with other men?

Many people can’t help but raise the issue of jealousy and potential cheating when the idea of involving another man is entertained. However, bringing a single male into the bedroom is no more problematic than bringing in another couple or female. After all, a woman is just as likely to form a sexual or emotional attachment to another woman, whereas many single guys are happy to be included with no strings attached. The qualities that seem to malign single men in the eyes of some couples (ie - focussed on sex, wanting to get on with things immediately etc.) are the very reasons why you can be guaranteed a no-fuss night of fun that doesn’t end in tears and dramas.

The mistrust in single men probably also stems from a man’s insecurity in his own relationship or even in himself. The idea that ‘his woman’ can be sexually pleasured by another man is overwhelmingly repellent. Others are just simply frightened that his partner will eventually find the other male more attractive and run off with him. Therefore, the sort of man who enjoys seeing his lady with other men is precisely the opposite of those two types. He can separate his ego from sexual pleasure and understands that the enjoyment derived by his partner is more from the situation than the individual. He’s also very secure and committed in his relationship so doesn’t see the other male as a threat. Of course, he’s also sensible enough to place some boundaries beforehand to ensure that the playing field is kept fair for all concerned.

Overall, men who are in a healthy, stable relationship with their partner love seeing her in all her sexual glory and desired by others, be it men or women. Watching a woman at play with one or more other men is a huge turn on, whether it’s because the naughty sex slave in her comes out, or because she’s in the captain’s seat and commanding her crew as she pleases.

Finding the right single guy

We’ve mentioned that lining up single guys for a greedy girl’s night in is relatively easy, but the finding the right guys does need some forward planning. Experienced couples may prefer similarly experienced guys in order to avoid awkward moments with newbies who have never been naked in front of another male, never mind get an erection. On the other hand, some couples may fantasise about initiating a guy into his first MFM threesome. Some couples prefer attached men for the perceived sense of security (no ongoing hassles) but others need guys who don’t have a personal life that gets in the way of spontaneous play sessions.

Aside from finding guys that the lady finds attractive, it’s important to consider other details such as endowment, body hair, tattoos and piercings, as well as smoking or drinking habits. It’s also essential to find out if your potential playmate has any underlying issues with having another man around while engaged in sexual activity. Many men work themselves up over the fantasy of MFM threesomes or orgies but find that they aren’t entirely comfortable with the reality, often much to the dismay of the couple who invests time and energy into meeting him.

Finally, as with meeting other couples and single females, do try and arrange a social meet with the single guy you chat up. Unless you are fairly comfortable to launch into a blind play session, it is a good idea to see if you are both compatible with the man in question. While the males won’t be playing with each other, it’s still important that your potential play friend is the sort of guy that your partner would happily have a beer with. Most importantly for the lady, it’s your night so take time to see if there is any chemistry. If there is none, end the evening with drinks and thank the guy for his time. If you can’t wait to rip his clothes off, then let’s hope you make it back to the car at least!