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How long before you get bored of a partner?

December 21 2024

In the latest iteration of my existence in online dating, I’ve listened to my “ghost of conquests past” and recognised patterns that lead to very short-term escapades.

A more mature outlook than the “what the fuck’s all this about?” 30 year old me dictates investment in a more mid-term adventure is on the cards.

But I am curious to know from all you lot; how long do your fuck buddy situations last on average before one of you calls it out of boredom or loss of that spark?

I’d say for me it’s probably been 3-5 play dates with some serious outliers thrown in.

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Pangolin28
2 months ago
Hahaha well it has always been when they get sick of me if I am lucky enough to find one
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Margo_Lover
2 months ago
I'm not into fuck buddies, so it's when the connection has run its course or dies.

Anywhere from 1 date to 10 months thus far.

I've had a couple of women (whom I didn't play with) tell me their number is 3.

After 3 play dates, they're done - Alex
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MsSuperFoxy
2 months ago
I've gained the nickname (by my daughter): "The 2 date Fuck Off", for a reason

Ms Foxy 🤭🫣
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RachWandered
2 months ago
Most dudes blow and go after 1-2 hook ups. I’ve had a handful stick around. I met my current fave in Feb this year. Ive had another who I met a few years ago.
Generally speaking, most people don’t want to invest the time into developing an interesting and open connection- it’s just about fucking. I get bored after 1-2 hook ups myself.
I like them kinky … kinky, adventurous, SINGLE and sexy men are the true unicorns …
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Alluringeyes
2 months ago
Been with my FWB for nearly 4 years. Never been bored. We try and catch up every 3 weeks +- 1-2 weeks.
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Sawadee
2 months ago
Anywhere between 2 weeks to a few months depending on attraction and compatibility...
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Phoenix479
2 months ago
At least 10 catch ups or 6 months, unless both of us communicated that it was going to be a one time thing. Sex gets better over time
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